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Is he doing laundry this time, or am I? Do we just do our own? He loaded the dishwasher yesterday…does he like loading the dishwasher, or should we switch off? Most of the time simple, direct communication works, but when we are planning out the week or preparing for company, we bust out the honey-do lists. This must be a white privilege woman problem. Always made about insignificant shit while us minorities have more important things to rant about.
Stop being pissed off and offended by inconsequential things that are not rude, are not sexist, and are not offensive. When I first ask my husband to fix something that was broken around the house, he acted like it something that only bothered me. So after a while I quit asking him to fix things around the house. Then our marriage died and I moved to my own bedroom because financially we can not make it alone.
Then I made a honey do list just to prepare the house for sale. Lo and behold he completely finished the chores on the list without complaining.
Now when i open the cupboard door that no longer falls on me, I smile and think of him in good terms. He fixed the door that would not lock and now i feel safe again in our house. I think he is my hero.
A list of chores assigned by one's primary companion, sweetheart, and honey pot . honey do list (plural honey do lists). (US, idiomatic) a collection of requests, usually by a spouse for a partner to perform a series of tasks, assignments, or jobs.
He mowed the yard and watered all my plants that he complains about. I think maybe he does like me. Our marriage is starting to see new growth because of one accomplished honey do list. Instead of a handy man becoming my hero my husband is starting to act like my hero. It makes me like doing his laundry, cooking his favorite meals and trying to look nice for him.
Jun 22, Ashley. I am my husband,s honey. Bryan is great at — and genuinely enjoys — tackling the projects on the list that keep our home fun and functional. We include the kids in our weekend chores and they get to see us working as a partnership, blending play with productivity, and taking pride in our home. What I do know is that as our lifestyle and circumstances changed, so too did the way we managed our home. And for us, putting it all down on paper helped eliminate some tension and — go figure — also allowed us to get stuff done.
PS — Earlier this week, Meagan wrote about the household tasks she does NOT delegate — if you missed it, check it out! Sarah Powers lives, writes, and wrangles three young children in Southern California. Find more of Sarah's work by following her on Twitter and Instagram. We both have certain things we totally avoid, and other things that we do enjoy. I think any idea that makes communication more straightforward is great. My husband and I tend to divide up the areas of home management.
Sometimes he will have bigger projects, and sometimes I will. When one of us is feeling like we have too much on our plate, we will ask the other person to pitch in. The other big part is that I have become more honest about what I am willing to do. I used to run myself down doing things that made me mad, and feeling like he was. Once I stopped doing the things that made me mad, it got better. Please feel free to contact me at Thanks Les. Framing, drywall, patch work, painting, caulking, tiling, backsplash. Which I can normally do without the job requiring patch work Contact me for a free quote.
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