What Guys See That Girls Dont

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They want to cast off all restraint and boundaries to live their lives the way they want to. The problem is, if a Christian lives with this attitude, they will cause others to stumble and will even bring great heartache and pain to their own lives. You talk about the process of being changed. If someone is listening who realizes that they need to change how they have been dressing what steps do they need to make other than just changing their dress?

Change starts within the heart. The first step is surrendering your life to the Lordship of Jesus Christ. In other words, it will talk to you in your thoughts. What is that test? Jesus said that the greatest of all the commandments that God has given to us as Christians is 1 to love the Lord our God with all our hearts, all our souls, all our minds and all our strength and, 2 to love others as much as we love ourselves. He said all the other commandments from God stem from these two commandments, and if you keep these two commandments you are obeying all the others Matthew When you love God passionately, you want to please Him and bring honor with every area of your life.

You think about whether you would grieve Him or glorify Him by something you do or something you wear. You also think about how you come across or relate to others.

You understand that others are affected positively or negatively by your life. You love your brother enough not to want to cause him to stumble and sin by the way you dress. You understand that he has to manage his thought life and keep it pure, so what you wear could help or hinder him from a pure thought life. The love of God wants to do everything it can to help others grow in their relationship with Jesus and not cause them to fall from their commitment to know Him.

The love test helps us examine our motives. Is my motive for how I am dressing pure, or is it based on a lust to be lusted for? When your motive is pure, you place a self-restraint on what you wear, what you say, where you go, etc. Purity in motive affects everything in your life. Love accepts responsibility for others and considers their walk with God.

The law of love, of course, is based on surrender of our wills to his convictions and leading. The Christian Broadcasting Network. Are you seeking answers in life? Calling a guy by cute and sweet names may be a woman's way of expressing her love for him but from a guy's perspective, cute names are somewhat of an insult towards his manliness.

Guys hate to be called by mushy names simply because it erodes away their masculine image.

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Imagine a tough looking guy being called 'cutie pie' by his girlfriend — the two don't go together. There is nothing more a guy would hate than to be dragged out of the couch on a lazy weekend. Men really value their relaxing time on a holiday and don't like to be forced to go out. This typically happens when his girl wants him to take her out when all he wants to do is veg out in front of the TV.

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Husbands get really annoyed when they are asked to pick up socks and men's underwear from bedroom and bathroom floors. Guys don't necessarily advocate a dirty living environment but they get frustrated when they are constantly asked to pick up their dirty laundry behind them.

This typically applies to couples who are dating and not yet married. Guys who are not needy hate it when their girlfriends keep bringing up commitment, future plans and relationship goals in day to day conversations.

This has nothing to do with commitment phobia. Guys may just find it unnecessary to talk about a relationship's future over and over again when there are no hiccups along the road in the first place. Men love it when they can help a woman. Being able to solve problems for women is in fact, a major driver of a man's ego.

But there is a fine line between dependency which drives ego and dependency which causes frustration. For example, when a wife asks her husband to open up a tight jar of jam, he willingly obliges. Opening up the tight jar is his way of showing his strength. But if his wife nags him for just about everything including helping her pay her bills online, he will get frustrated. Men hate it when their wives and girlfriends start giving directions while they are driving. Guys like to believe that they know where they are going and they don't need any help.

This typically leads to a lot of fights when a couple is driving to some place and they get lost. The guy will blame it on the girl who gave bad directions. While the girl will blame the guy's inability to accept that someone else can give better directions than himself.

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Repeatedly asking a guy to spend more time with her is something that most couples fight about. While a woman's intention to do this may be nothing but romantic, a guy is likely to see this as needy and clingy behavior. A situation like this gets worse when it concern's the amount of time a guy spends with his own friends.

Meeting up with friends and hanging out with the guys is seen as something that all men should do. Any form of nagging in this regard will really get to his nerves. Men aren't the best at reading between the lines which makes them really annoyed when women overanalyze conversations and social situations. Guys typically like to take things on face value and are unlikely to be as good as women in understanding the emotion or the hidden meaning in a conversation. Guys hate it when women compare their own relationships with those of other couples. Here are some examples of comparisons that really annoy men.

Guys don't like it when girls rant about women's issues. This includes talking about hormonal mood swings, period pain and any other stuff that is related to biological cycles that women face month after month.

On one hand, women expect their men to be more considerate about such issues. On the other, being a part of the circus is the last thing men want to be involved in. Both parties can frown at each other all they want, but periods are not going to end and nor is a general aversion from the men's corner towards them. Men hate it from the inner most corners of their hearts when they are asked by their wives and girlfriends to buy gifts.

This includes subtle hints while window shopping. Right from jewelry, handbags, dresses and other stuff - apart from birthdays and anniversaries, men prefer that women go out and buy their own stuff. For most guys, their cars have a lot to do with their egos. Even if they are driving a rickety set of wheels, they will never accept that their car is a bad ride. Men want women to understand this quirky bond they have with their cars.

Comparing a man's car to another man's is as good as disrespecting him in one of the worst possible ways. Guys may not say it out aloud all the time but they get really jealous about their partner's exes.

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They cringe at the thought of their girlfriend or wife talking with an ex. No matter how cool a guy pretends to be, it is nearly impossible that he is completely ok with his woman talking to her ex. Just like women expect men to take interest in girly stuff like shopping so that couples can spend more time with each other, men also expect their better halves to take interest in manly stuff like watching sports. He expects her to watch action flicks, go to the Friday night games with him and maybe even play a round or two of the latest Xbox bestseller — just like she drags him along while shopping.

Sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account. Comments are not for promoting your articles or other sites. This is so true. I think women need to stop being selfish and realize that men also have wants needs, dislikes and likes. One has to be able to understand reality from ideology. Whilst equality and feminism are welcome and definitely advance civilization reality is we leave at a time where they are not yet fully realized and embraced. Welp, Rin and Nikki; what man hate doesn't equate to liking it when one is doing it.

One also doesn't have to like whatever they know is good to do. So yes i recognize your difficulties in accepting some of what the writer says but lets not always think everything is about what a 21st century woman should or shouldn't do.

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