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Read stories on the internet or watch porn and pick up any ideas you like, try them out and run with the ones that work. Either that, or choose a 'gimick' at random, like a blindfold, or gag, or toys, or a new rule or roleplaying idea. Good luck, and have fun! I would really recommend Sweetness Follows for fun, sexy, imaginative ideas. Chelle and Mike are just the sweetest couple.
And no, you don't have to be perfect and not show any weakness! If she is naturally submissive, she will likely want to comfort you and dote over you when you are feeling vulnerable, just as you, having a bit of a dominant side to you, will want to shelter and protect her.
I wish you much joy of each other. Remember that, even as sexy as the lifestyle can be, sometimes it's just as nice to cuddle up and just make "sweet, sweet love". Don't feel backed into a corner- that you have to be in the roles every time you have sex. Also, safewords are good. Make sure she's comfortable using her safewords- ask her a few time even when she's really turned on to practice saying them. That way it'll be easier to use them when she really needs to.
Nothing hurts a scene like truly hurt feelings. And cuddling afterwards is always a good idea.
But, more than anything- Have fun! Also- for the fun stuff- -try 'commanding' her to dominate you. Don't try and be absolutely perfect at it the first time, or the second time, or the th time. Accidently tying yourself up, pronouncing "bitch" wrong, and other goofy things can make the whole thing a lot more fun. And that's the point, isn't it? Good sex, kinked or not, requires good communication. So of course being dominant doesn't require you to become a stone statue!
As for fears of being on an ego trip, as long as you're keeping it SSC Safe, Sane, Consensual , a mutually enjoyed ego trip is fine. A dog is a heck of a lot of responsibility, and they just need to be fed, loved, walked and taken to obedience classes. Training a fellow human being, who has hopes, fears, dreams, private desires and ambitions, on top of the stuff embarking on a non-human caretaking relationship may also involve, can be exhausting.
Set limits and boundaries, and decide what it is acceptable for your sub to ask for you and what you can sanely ask your sub. Similarly, you are entitled to alone time, to being less than perfect and being able to admit that, and all the things normal to a vanilla relationship. For example, by day you sub can be free and independent, but when you offer her your collar and she puts it on, you play happy kinky games and she calls you Master.
Setting a boundary this way allows you to discuss with her as equals how to make you both happy in the off times. If you just want to play games, mock abductions with dayglow orange toy water pistols , brief training sessions and competitions, ie making her walk about in nothing but heels, with a stack of books on her head , and so on, can keep you both happily entertained.
Picking mundane skills for her to improve on and setting her up to practice them regularly can be an act of erotic love. For example, a regular work out schedule, a healthy eating plan no sweets for you, young lady! A little introspection about what sort of top you want to be, from regal lord and master, to cruel but fair leather daddy, and what sort of sub she wants to be, will help you work together better. As you read and explore the many facets of BDSM, remember that nothing is "better" than something else. It's not better to be a slave than a submissive.
Playing with knives and fire doesn't make you a better dominant. Be honest with yourself about you want and what you are capable of. And remember that the end of the day, you are a human being. If you fuck up, say you're sorry. It doesn't make you less of Dom. Your submissive will respect your authority even more if you confess and apologize when you do it wrong. And lots of people have "regular" relationships in which they don't feel able to show weakness or vulnerability, either. I'm not sure that this matters, as long as you are having fun.
You will figure out the answer to this as time goes by -- if this relationship ends and you are trying to figure out if a new person is compatible, or if the dynamics of this relationship change. If you are going to be using ropes, get hold of some books, or do some careful googling. Screwing up this can have some bad, bad consequences.
Play the C dominant 7th chord and listen to the sound of it.
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It has a dissonant quality to it. So what exactly gives the dominant 7th chord its dissonant quality?
Again, the C Major chord has the root, third and fifth degrees of the Major scale. Add the flat 7 to complete the dominant 7th chord. They contain the interval known as a tritone within the chord. Just look at the third and flat 7th by themselves.
There are so many different ways to play around with domination and . sexy way for the Dom to showcase their dominance over the sub. 3) Can you give me any ideas as to more games we can play: ways I can . Playing with knives and fire doesn't make you a better dominant.
This is a diminished 5th interval. If you play this interval by itself you can clearly hear where dominant 7th chords get their distinctive sound.
With the blues of course. Please be aware that you can play them in different inversions or voicings.
The preceding chords are in a format called Keyshots in which each color represents a numbered tone within the chord. Find out more about them here. Just a few notes about dominant 7th chords: The dominant 7th chord is often built on the fifth note in a key of music. This is also known as the 5 chord and it has a strong pull to the 1 chord. This creates resolution in a chord progression and can end a song or be a turnaround to repeat the progression. A couple more things about dominant 7th chords: Major 7th have a different character to them and minor 7th chords have a minor 3rd in them and a more consonant sound.
Dominant 7th chords are found everywhere. You should get as familiar as you can with them because there such an integral part of popular music; especially dominant 7th chords on the piano.
The examples I showed you here a small portion of the dominant 7th chords that are available to you. Remember, you have 12 possible dominant 7th chords because you have 12 different keys. Until next time, Go Play! Check your inbox or spam folder now to confirm your subscription. The following two tabs change content below.
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