Dump the Dating Rules
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All I knew was she was hot and there was sex involved. So on that random weekday night, she calls me. Do I want to come by? Maybe an hour later she calls back. Thirty minutes later she calls again. I consider not picking up.
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I sit there staring at my phone as it rings, rings, rings. I finally pick up. My God, get off the phone I think to myself. I text her and tell her if she wants to see me again, she should stop calling me right now. She calls six more times, six more voicemails. I turn the phone off. The next day I wake up to 43 voicemails and one text message. The voicemails are from the night before. The text message is from early that morning. I read the text: I was drunk last night. And it felt completely justified. Giving advice on break ups can be complicated because break ups are contextual.
The key to a graceful break up and a healthy recovery depends on a variety of factors. Are you the dumper or the dumpee?
10 Rules For Breaking Up Gracefully
Did you break up over a singular issue or was the chemistry and excitement gone? And then there are the more permanent questions: Do you want to stay in contact with your ex?
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How do you get over missing them? What if they want to get back together with you? What if Steve was more your friend than her friend even though she thinks he likes her more but he really likes you more? These are all good questions. And they deserve answers. Below are some guiding principles on how to handle a break up gracefully. Unless they did something totally out of line like scalp your cat or leave you 43 tearful voicemails in one night , and if you have any respect for them at all often a legitimate question , then always do it in person. But suck it up.
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Which brings us to principle number two…. Never make a scene and keep your batshit to a minimum. Feeling distraught is OK.
Being torn apart from the inside out is fine and expected. But any attempt to do so is going to just make you look like a child with down syndrome throwing a tantrum.
Do it in private and do it with someone you trust. Do NOT try to make the other person feel better. This goes particularly for the dumper cue Beavis and Butthead laugh. And not only is it no longer your responsibility to help them cope, but comforting them will likely make them feel worse.
I sit there staring at my phone as it rings, rings, rings. But once Ken found Charlotte, he flew out to California and never went home! If they were right for you, they would have realized it by now. When I looked at all of the self-descriptive prompts on the online profile, as well as others' profiles, I realized how easy it is to wear masks with online dating, where people are too often assessed based on superficial criteria, and then easily cast aside. Admit We Are Hurt and Angry: Share this article via facebook Share this article via twitter.
It can also backfire in that it will just make them resent you more for being so nice while dumping them. Seriously, you just broke up. You hug them to make them feel better. You start getting upset because you wish things could have worked, but this is for the better. They were great, right? No, really, what are you doing!?
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After the break up, respectfully cut all contact for a short period of time. Research on relationship break ups finds that people who limit contact with one another emotionally recover much faster. Talk to somebody about it. Or else they buck convention and just go for it read between the sheets!
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