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Husband, I want you to know that it is not where you direct your attention to first that sets the mood for leisurely loving, but it is how. You can start caressing below the waist and still inspire a long, romantic sex with soft kisses, light touches and gentle licks.
In addition, the more time spent caressing each other with clothes on, the more you will both anticipate the fabulous sensation of skin against skin. Notice each freckle and curves as it is uncovered, then kiss or stroke it. When either of the spouses is still partially dressed and the other is naked, the result can be extremely racy.
Keep all or a few pieces of clothing on after stripping your spouse to let them know that, for the moment, their bare erogenous zones are the sole focus of your attention and if you need to pass any constructive positive comment for a healthier better shape, be very careful and cautious about your utterances.
The comments and reactions of our spouses go a long way to enhance and boost or inhibit, hinder, hamper and hold back our sexual performances. Please be sure to use more pressure in typically delicate places to keep the touch, kiss or lick sensual, passionate, tormenting and erotic. One thing that is crystal clear is that there will be an intense connection.
In a long term marriage or relationship, it is very easy to fall into an eye-closed-routine-sex in which first move is made, and then couples stop talking, stop looking into each other eye and just engage in a physical exercise. At this point, sex is about as intimate as a wrestling match and that can be passionless, unsatisfying, boring and unnecessary because the feeling is that of just going through the motions.
This material, and other digital content on this website, may not be reproduced, published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed in whole or in part without prior express written permission from PUNCH. CD3DC0 Share your story with us: Just simply request him to do things a better way, but as you do so, appreciate the much he has done so far. This is what we all want when with a person. No fights, no frustrations, no stress. Men avoid complicated and draining environments. Attract him to you by giving him peace. Dress up, look sexy. Cater to him, cook for him, buy him gifts, treat him like a king, straighten his tie.
Men get attracted to good conversations.
They want laughter, depth, intelligent conversations. A woman who talks lovey dovey stuff but also about business, governance, social issues, a great vision; that woman is a keeper. Shine as a woman. Find out who his friends are, get to have laughs and talks with them. Support his social life, be good to his family and siblings. Find out what he likes and spend time with him doing that thing. If he loves rugby, watch matches with him sometimes; if he wins an award, go cheer him as he receives it. He is often described as "The Artist Inspired by Love" because of his use of artistic expressions to inspire, celebrate and help understand the mystery of love.
Spice up your memory. Some people emote compassion with emotions, but others don't -- so don't feel the need to be a sobbing mess! The power of touch does wonders. Touch your partner, and let him or her feel your presence without saying a word. And on that note: Listen up and shut up.
Oh, we humans have to have our voices heard, but being compassionate is about being there for someone else. This is a sticky icky, but it can be a big compassion moment in a relationship. Sharing your own story can bridge a gap and connect you with your partner in his time of need.
Never, ever, ever say "I understand. Instead, say, "Tell me more about how you're feeling. There may be a disparity in what you'd like to do to be compassionate and what they need. Are you being compassionate out of expectations of return, or because you truly care? Are doing this because of the adage "Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you"?
Compassion doesn't mean over giving, or co-dependency. Compassion simply allows you to care, without throwing yourself into the heart of someone else's stuff. Compassion can be such a serious subject, a little laughter might be just what you need. Laughter is the best medicine! Put yourself first, but don't be selfish enough to step aside.
You already learned that being first in the compassion line helps you better help others.
This is a real treat for couples: When invariably he cannot take it any longer and wants to penetrate, as he does so, shut your legs and squeeze your thighs tightly together. The power of touch does wonders. Remember, nothing impresses a woman like the ability to be fingered by her husband. CD3DC0 Share your story with us: It is not just about satisfying your hunger; it is about enjoying every single, delicious moment. Little things do matter!
However, if you become bent on "Me, Me, Me," you'll lose sight of what's important. If you feel that your partner, husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend is in need of some deeper compassion go for it.