Contents:
I felt a sense of calm just knowing I had guidance as I started taking those first steps onto the healing path. However, I also started to reach out to coaches and non-traditional therapy professionals, as well. Finding what works for YOU is the key to creating a plan and building your coping tool box. This nonjudgmental service provides a listening ear, support and guidance to parents and caregivers who are upset or troubled about a family issue, or just need someone to talk to.
Heart to Heart is staffed by parent volunteers. As parents, they truly understand that parenting is hard work! They are available to help ease some of that workload, by offering support. You can also watch our interview on YouTube. I want to share a story of hope. But, before I share the happy part, I want to tell you about my dad and our history. My dad hit me, quite violently at times, using a belt most days the jingle of a belt buckle used to make those little hairs on my neck take notice.
I was the oldest of two girls and, fortunate for me, but not my younger sister, I could scurry behind a locked bathroom door before being caught. I would spend my moments of terror, counting dingy white tiles in our tiny apartment bathroom, trying to tune out the sounds coming from outside my temporary safe space. However, sometimes I was caught. Dad was six foot six, two-hundred and eighty pounds, and angry.
At his alcoholic wife screaming for him to silence the children. Whatever it was, he was angry about it. And we were easy prey, my little sister and me. Sometimes he would throw something. Once he beheaded a statue of Jesus. My sister glued it back on. Another time, he broke my soccer trophy in half. I taped it back together with masking tape. The soccer player looked like she was playing with a cast on. When I was ten years old, my dad called me into his bedroom my parents slept in separate rooms. He sat me on his lap and told me the following: And I now realize I never should have hit you.
I promise to never hit you again. From now on you get to decide your discipline. And he never hit me again. My first lesson in forgiveness. And what a beautifully powerful one it was. You see, my dad was also my saving grace. He was the one who took us to Burger Chef for a Fun Meal after our soccer games on Saturday mornings. Dad tucked us in with stories of dragons and spaceships and talking dogs. He was the one who taught me how to count with raisins.
And sat me on his lap when he would draw. He was a good dad. I thank God he had the compassion to listen. I truly believe his spirit tagged along. There in that mix of decaying brown, yellow, red, and orange tints was a tiny heart. As I was headed to my car, the last of the sun on a blue-sky morning, now turning grey, was peering through a yellow-leafed tree. Follow the links below to learn more about Stacy, life storytelling, to register for free for the day summit starting September 1st, and the FREE guide listing the 35 most impactful books for emotional abuse.
Life Story Laboratory — Summit Registration. I would love to have YOU join me, as well. If you are interested, please send me a private messages through this site and I will send you my podcast interview questions for you to review. I am a huge fan of lifting one another up as beacons of light for those who are struggling, looking for guidance, or lost in the dark.
My goal is to provide motivational, inspirational, and healing stories for my listeners. Excerpt from my Hope for Healing Newsletter — December, Perhaps the love aspect of the practice is enough to transmute the situation. Ho opono pono teaches us that We have been mistaken in who or what we think we are.
We can only be hurt by our thoughts. We say i am sorry, please forgive me, I love you and thank you to the forgotten child in us, who has been abused and burdened by our wrong thinking and mistaken Identity. Only willingness to say the phrases. Zero point is where we dance with all of us, in celebration.
No guilt, only empowerment and miracles. When i read your statement it made me have an epiphany of sorts!! Thats exactly who we all have been killing inside of us for many years, especially as we all grow up and enter the work force. Our inner child that has been long forgotten and slowly killed off day by day, by our compliance mentally and physicaly with society and its norms and expectations of how we must think and feel.
We do very much owe the forgotten child inside of us an apology for all the pain it has suffered. I know the inner child in me woke up when i read your statement and i sort of was like finally!! That was long over due!!! I Think we all have at some point been hurt when we were children emotionally and were probably told to be strong and move past it, dont let it get you down, but we never fully apologized to those we hurt and we never healed from the pain inflicted upon us by others.
We all have our own hurt child inside of us who needs to here the ho oponopono. Whatever works for you works for you, and understand that you are doing this for yourself in your own name. So I said Sorry I forgive u thank you I love you. Not sure if it works the same to say it to someone else but I felt better for saying it. Is there any real evidence that Dr Len cured the inmates at the prison or is this some sort of legend?
Where exactly did this take place? The only source of this story is only Dr Len himself self. It works every time. Now I am using it on Trump! Will switch to this immediately! There is no reason for it. Also, not everything that comes to your attention is your responsibility. For example, your neighbour turns music volume to max and you clearly hear it in your apartment. How can you be responsible for that? The neighbour made the decision, not you. I wondered too if it had to do with the practice but could not find any other stories about reactions on the internet.
Maybe it is a energetic reaction? The only thing you can change is yourself and your perception of what is happening around you. Nothing is inherently good or bad. It just is what it is. What this method can help you achieve is compassion and inner peace. It worked for me in different situations: Thank you for sharing. The rational as I see it is simple: I understand I change my perspective about the world, the question is how changing my perspective can change the world?
With out interacting with it? What is, is simply what is. When your perspective changes your reality changes simply because your experience of it is now different. It is simple and costs nothing! I have not tried yet I learned about it today but I definetelly will — today!
And I want to do it for my daughter! Is this a natural occurrence when first using this method? Will it get better with time? It is very normal to first see the shadow before you see the light when you start to look beyond, within. Hi, I have been using this method for about few days and it clears my head and I can go to sleep easy. When I am up and functional, I found my self very angry with few people in my life who hurt me to my core.
I was just wondering if this is the site effects of the techniques since I am new to it. What you are experiencing is normal. It may not be easy to hear, but the source of the anger you feel is not outside but inside of you. Others are merely there to help you see it. Look at it, accept it and feel it fully but without adding a narrative i. Darkness has not identity of its own.
Bring it to the light and it will automatically disappear. Infinite patience produces immediate results.
Also, How many times I should practice this and if there are certain time that this would work best? Any advise is appreciated and many thanks in advance to all.. Thank you for your kind words. It is impossible to give a general answer to what will always be very specific situations. Practice as much or as little as you feel is good for you. A broken relationship is only broken as long as you want to believe it is broken. If you hate me but all I feel is love and respect for you then where is the broken relationship on my end? Do you best to awaken from it.
This is the most powerful AND easiest improvement method in the world. Once everyone has heard of it, everything will be in place that it takes to save humanity and our beautiful planet, and lead us to literally live in a paradise again.
Thanks for writing it up beautifully on LOU. I started using this method on my 8 year old who is diagnosed type 1 diabetes 25 days ago. I hope and want it to work. Do you have any experience of method which I can use? We are not in a position to give general advice to what will always be a very specific situation. Please consult local healing professionals. Dear Isil Ersu, yes definitely consult with healing professionals and medical specialists. How were you trained in the practice, and by who? Jane, you can study this topic and apply it to your life without a paid healer.
You can read books, watch YouTube videos and use your own discernment about which are to be trusted and which are helpful to your own situation. Good luck and blessings to you! To change anything in the physical world something needs to happen on this plane. Thinking is not enough. I encourage you to try the rice experiment.
Cook some rice, then split what you have cooked and put into 2 different closed glass jars. For 30 days spend a few minutes every day talking to jar 1 and tell it how beautiful it is and how much you appreciate it. Then spend a few more minutes talking to jar 2 and tell it how awful, ugly, useless it is.
This will show you the impact of mere words and the energy within them. I m using this method for 2 weeks and it really works ,my problems is solving one after one , I just wondering this can heal my old sinusitis??? I knew nothing of this prayer before yesterday. Last year I feel asleep on my couch.
I was suddenly awaken by our oldest daughter knocking on her bedroom door. When I went to go sit back down I began struggling to breathe and then stopped breathing. A type of darkness I had never experienced before and I could feel it on my skin like a blanket. After accepting the fact that this was the end of my life. I would never see my wife, my children, my mother or anyone else broke my heart. Even worse all the worries that were on my mind for the next day no seen completely stupid.
Then voices, many many voices began speaking at once like a river of water. I heard my voice then the thoughts and feelings others had because of my words. I was so ashamed at how i harmed others with my words. I began responding to these voices with, I am so sorry, I never knew you felt that way, Please forgive me ,Thank you, I Love you. There is when I started see billions of those little specs of light that show up after being hit in the face.
Well the pilled away like a curtain. I immediately began crying and thanking God cause He let me come back. Yesterday while attending orientation at the CaseyRailey school of massage therapy, we were given a tour of the library. Following the tour I asked the librarian about the edgar casey readings and shared apart of my experience with her.
When she heard the words I am sorry, Please forgive me ,Thank You, please forgive me. She stoped me and said do you know what you just said. Of course I didnt have a clue. She dismissed the other students and took me behind the library desk to a little frail Jewish lady. She asked me to share with the lady and then showed me my words written on this ladies desk verbatim. She tried to take me to the book but it was missing from the library.
She sent me to the website. That is so beautiful. I started because i fell in live with someone who was livimg the country and he did not know anf it was in my mind something almost impossible to hapoen, so i was so sad and probably got im some sort of deoression as the only thing i would to was work all day and cry gor the rest of the time. I am ready to start it again because i am sure thw Universe will bring us togethwr on the rifhr time. I became a much better person aftwr hoponopono.
I am so grateful for it. I am sorry, forgive me, thank you and I liove you. This practice does work.
I learned it a little bit differently than described here. Thank you Starvel for your comment! For example, I had a big pimple on the gum and it kept bursting and reoccurring in a matter of days. Since I practise Hooponopono on this issue, it has never grown into the size it used to be and no more bursting and throbbing for over 5 weeks now.
Another lady shared that she had stopped the profound hair loss in the same way in days. We are also loving to have a family. Dear Hayley, may God bless your partner with healing a cure and a full and speedy recovery and the same for all the doctors and the right donor, may it be speedy and good. Celina, it sounds like you might also need a visit to the dentist.
An infected tooth could be the cause of your recurring pimple on your gum. I will, thanks Lisa. The pimple on my gum has disappeared shortly after I posted. But I will go for a dental check as well.
A traditional Hawaiian healing method for relationships, forgiveness and love. By: Book of Ho'oponopono . The Nine Principles of Living in Natural Magic. From Poetry to Photography, History, and Ethnography It's an open question how many of those nine million will wonder about the The annual Hawaii Book & Music Festival in downtown Honolulu attracts thousands each spring. . veil on the shadow side of “paradise,” along with its moments of grace.
Focus on what empowers you and ignore everything else. At the end of the day the only truly important thing is what you do, not what you think. Whatever helps you grow as a human being is a good thing. The ancient wisdom of Hawai'i has been guarded for centuries -- handed down through lines of kinship to form the tradition of Huna.
Hawaiian spirituality teaches that individuals can be truly fulfilled only if they are conscious participants in the long ancestral chain of witnessing and transmission that connects the present to the time of origins. The wisdom and spirituality of Hawaiian elders is a facet of Hawaiian culture that outsiders rarely see or truly understand. Beneath the surface images of paradise that depict Hawaii, anthropologist Rima Morrell found a secret and sophisticated spiritual tradition that few of its many visitors ever get to experience.
Clicking a link changes the page to only show products in the selected category. Click more links to further refine the products shown. Cart 0 Banyen Books and Sound. Viewing 1 - 16 of Medicine Ways to Cultivate the Aloha Spirit. A traditional Hawaiian healing method for relationships, forgiveness and love. The Hawaiian Practice of Forgiveness and Healing.
The worship paid to Kane was of a simple character, without human sacrifice or laborious ritual. Hawaiian spirituality teaches that individuals can be truly fulfilled only if they are conscious participants in the long ancestral chain of witnessing and transmission that connects the present to the time of origins. Will it get better with time? Before the Long-god was brought out, fires were lighted on the beach and the people bathed ceremonially in the sea and put on fresh garments. In this book, you will learn how to cultivate aloha spirit and create a space for miracles in your life with Hawaiian bodywork practices and medicine ways. At that time, Dr.
The Huna Way to Healthy Relationships.