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It humiliates, degrades, intimidates, insults, excludes, silences or harms us on the basis of our actual or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity. The term homophobia was coined in the late s by psychologist George Weinberg. Time For Love explores homophobia in modern society, and also the concept of normality.

Do the pressures of convention turn us against one another? Is love the price? Equally, it would be wrong to sugar-coat something when the truth is that not everybody likes us. And they can be pretty mean about us! Most gay men understand what it is like to be discriminated against because of their sexuality. We grow up in a world where heterosexuality is the assumed norm and anything different is often considered unnatural or perverted.

Further afield, Russia continues to crack down on homosexuality, Isis perpetuate murderous punishments for people who are gay, and there over 70 countries around the world where homosexuality is illegal. We may be influenced by the views of friends and work colleagues and, anti-gay laws are still being passed by governments, around the world.

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This can lead to feelings of self-hatred, self-loathing, and disgust which can have damaging and lasting consequences. Some people try to bury or reject their sexuality altogether. Internalised homophobia gets in the way of having a fulfilling personal life especially if you are already in a same-sex relationship , can mess with your work life, lowering and crushing self-esteem which leads to anxiety and depression.

Whether you are gay or not, it may be helpful to speak to a trusted friend or contact one of the helplines listed in our support section. Many of us grow up, come out and have wonderful and happy lives. For others, the journey can be rockier. Just this week I met a young man who told me he hated gay pride, hated effeminate men but crucially was trying to work through these feelings by talking about them.

Hate incidents and hate crime are acts of hostility or violence directed at people because of who they are or who someone thinks they are. The police and Crown Prosecution Service have agreed a common definition of hate incidents. They say something is a hate incident if the victim or anyone else think it was motivated by hostility or prejudice based on:. All police forces record hate incidents based on these five personal characteristics.

Click link below for full report. Any criminal offence can be a hate crime if it was carried out because of hostility or prejudice based on disability, race, religion, transgender identity or sexual orientation. When something is classed as a hate crime, the judge can impose a tougher sentence on the offender under the Criminal Justice Act Incidents which are based on other personal characteristics, such as age and belonging to an alternative subculture, are not considered to be hate crimes under the law. You can still report these, but they will not be prosecuted specifically as hate crimes by the police and the Crown Prosecution Service.

For example, you could be a friend, neighbour, family member, support worker or simply a passer-by. When reporting the incident or crime you should say whether you think it was because of disability, race, religion, transgender identity, sexual orientation or a combination of these things. This is important because it makes sure the police record it as a hate incident or crime.

Although the police can only charge and prosecute someone when the law has been broken, there are other things the police can do to help you deal with incident. But sometimes, you may be repeatedly harassed by the same person or group of people. While this section focuses on people in school or college, bullying still occurs in the workplace and other settings. Bullying can cause long-lasting damage to young people and badly affects the schools and colleges that take no measures to tackle it.

Homophobia can affect any pupil or student, whether they are lesbian, gay, bisexual or straight, and this form of bullying can be especially confusing, vicious, isolating, and life-changing. All schools have a duty of care to ensure the safety of, and to protect the emotional well being of, every person in their care. Schools need to be aware of the homophobia endemic in British schools, and its effects on learning, health, and self-esteem. We have laid deep foundations across Britain — in some of our greatest institutions — so our communities can continue to find ways to flourish, and individuals can reach their full potential.

But our work is not finished yet. Not until everyone feels free to be who they are, wherever they are. This report, the first of a series based on the research, investigates their experiences of homophobic, biphobic and transphobic hate crimes and day-to-day discrimination. The study looks at these hate crimes and if they have been reported or not. It also looks at discrimination LGBT people face in their daily lives, for example when they walk down the street, when visiting shops and cafes, when accessing public services or when trying to rent a new home. They are not and, without throwing the non-binary baby out with the bath water, we would do well to remember this.

That we are no longer legally persecuted in this country — and that we are less hated and judged than we were — is not something to be thankful for. Gaining treatment others take for granted is not some special gift: Gratitude implies that the state eventually buckling to the demands of LGBTQ people represented some sort of sacrifice on the part of our persecutors. Legal rights were won by LGBTQ people who were spat at, reviled by the press, demonised by large swaths of the public, persecuted by the law, incarcerated, chemically castrated and driven to suicide.

A long road to equality Kings College London 28 Jul 2m 11s. We have a large and rather wonderful section on head stuff and your mental health, click away below:. Sigma Research is a social research group specialising in the behavioural and policy aspects of HIV and sexual health. It also undertakes research and development work on aspects of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender LGBT health and well-being. In , Sigma Research carried out an on-the-spot survey of men attending the London Lesbian and Gay Pride festival, instigating an annual survey that has grown to be the largest in the world and an institution on the UK summer gay scene.

The content of the survey is developed in collaboration with health promoters, within the framework of Making it Count The questions cover a range of demographics, health indicators, sexual behaviours, HIV prevention needs, use of settings in which health promotion can occur and recognition of national interventions. The weight given to each area varies each year, and the data collected is treated as cumulative, building a detailed picture of gay men and bisexual men and HIV over time.

Though there has been progress in the past 50 years or so for LGBT people around the world, it remains a divisive, religious, and political issue. While some countries have decriminalised homosexuality, outlawed homophobic hate crimes and over 20 countries recognise same-sex marriage; others are becoming increasingly oppressive, and brutal, like Chechnya. Having sex with someone of the same sex remains illegal in over 70 countries, and punishable by death in Amnesty International UK works to protect men, women and children wherever justice, freedom, truth and dignity are denied.

It investigates and exposes abuses, educates and mobilises the public, and helps transform societies to create a safer, more just world. It has received the Nobel Peace Prize for its life-saving work. We all have the right to be treated as equals, regardless of our gender identity or sexuality.

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But being lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual or intersex is a crime in many countries around the world. Human Rights Watch HRW is a non-profit, non-governmental human rights organisation made up of roughly staff members around the globe. Its staff consists of human rights professionals including country experts, lawyers, journalists, and academics of diverse backgrounds and nationalities. Established in , HRW is known for its accurate fact-finding, impartial reporting, effective use of media, and targeted advocacy, often in partnership with local human rights groups.

Each year, HRW publishes more than reports and briefings on human rights conditions in some 90 countries, generating extensive coverage in local and international media. The Trust does not campaign; it works using international law and plans to facilitate test case litigation in those jurisdictions that continue to criminalise homosexuality. At any one time we aim to have between 5 and 10 cases before national courts and international tribunals.

ILGA is a worldwide federation of more than 1, member organisations from countries campaigning for lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans and intersex rights. It publishes an annual world report and a map on legislation criminalising or protecting people on the basis of their sexual orientation or recognising their relationships. Seeks to promote and protect the human rights of individuals, communities and nations, in the UK and internationally, in accordance with established national and international human rights law.

The PTF seeks to raise awareness, understanding, protection and implementation of human rights, in the UK and worldwide. This involves research, education, advice, casework, publicity and advocacy for the enforcement and furtherance of human rights law.

Collaborative knowledge base for the LGBT lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender movement. Border-less, largely volunteer community of more than 1, writers, analysts, on-line media experts, and translators. It curates, verifies and translates trending news and stories that you might be missing on the Internet, from blogs, independent press and social media in countries. The age of consent in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland is 16 regardless of sexual orientation or gender. The age of consent in Ireland is The age of consent in other EU countries varies. By , many European countries had reduced the age of consent for homosexual acts to 16, but it remained at 21 in the United Kingdom.

Having only been decriminalised in , the wording of the legislation to decriminalise also included wording that placed restrictions such as making illegal the use of a hotel room for sex. Ann Widdecombe Clip starts at 14m40s Against the motion: Stephen Fry Clip starts at 21m01s. So, here are a handful of vlogs that have caught our eye, and our selection. While some vlogs remain inspirational, they are two-for-a-penny these days. The initials LGBT stand for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender or transsexual. Or, to put it another way, anyone who is not straight heterosexual. Before we were called gay, the term homosexual was, and to some extent still is, used.

Before that we called pansies, queers, and deviants, for example. And how do we include those who define themselves as bigender, androgyne, agender, cisgender. And, yes, we love everybody! This is done by:. The theme for is geography. As a precursor to Camden and Islington LGBT History Month to promote the event, Three Flying Piglets has made a several short films over recent years with local volunteers both in front of and behind the camera. Making Gay History brings the voices of queer history to life through intimate conversations with LGBTQ champions, heroes, and witnesses to history.

There is a growing movement of people who refuse to be labelled and are striking out to define themselves on their own terms. Gay men, particularly, are often reduced to sexually transmitted infections, sexual acts, or hedonism when, in fact, we are of course so much more. People, the media especially, will define us in whatever ways are convenient and easy, often at the expense of accuracy and recognising our individuality.

While some of us may be gay, lesbian, bi or trans or whatever we choose to call ourselves we are also parents, workers, learners and explorers. Over many years, lesbian and gay communities around the world have used symbols to identify who we are. Often worn as badges and displayed as flags, some of the better known symbols include the rainbow flag, the pink triangle, the lambda and gender symbols.

Probably the most recognisable symbol today is the rainbow flag, but other symbols have been an integral part of our history in the fight for recognition and equality. While the red ribbon is not a symbol of being gay, many gay men wear it, which is why it is interpreted by some as an indication that the wearer is gay; this is not necessarily so. Use of the rainbow flag by the gay community began in when San Francisco artist Gilbert Baker designed the rainbow flag in response to the need for a symbol that could be used year after year.

The flags had eight stripes, each colour representing a component of the community: Due to production difficulties hot pink was not commercially available , pink and turquoise were removed from the design, and royal blue replaced indigo. This six-colour version spread from San Francisco to other cities, and soon became the widely known symbol of gay pride and diversity that it is today.

Paragraph , a clause in German law, prohibited homosexual relationships. Convicted offenders were sent to prison, and then later to concentration camps. Their punishment was to be sterilized, and this was most often accomplished by castration. In , punishment for homosexuality was extended to death. Concentration camp prisoners each wore a coloured inverted triangle to designate the reason for their incarceration. Criminals wore a green triangle, political prisoners a red triangle, Jewish prisoners two overlapping yellow triangles to form a Star of David and the pink triangle was for homosexuals.

Stories of the camps reveal that homosexual prisoners were given the worst tasks and were the focus of attacks by the guards and other inmates. Although homosexuals were only one of the many groups targeted for extermination by the Nazi regime, it is, unfortunately, our group that history often excludes. Estimates of the number of gay men killed during the Nazi regime range from 50, to twice that figure. In the s, gay liberation groups resurrected the pink triangle as a symbol for the gay rights movement.

Not only is the symbol easily recognized, but it also draws attention to oppression and persecution — then and now. They inverted the symbol, making it point up, to signify an active fight-back rather than a passive resignation to fate. Today, for many, the pink triangle represents pride, solidarity, and a promise to never allow another Holocaust to happen again.

The lambda symbol seems to be one of the most controversial of symbols, as regards its meaning. However, most sources agree on a few things: It became the symbol of their growing movement for gay liberation. As their symbol for lesbian and gay rights, the lambda became internationally popular. However, no one seems to have a definitive answer as to why the lambda was originally chosen as a gay symbol. Lambda may also denote the synergy of the gay movement, the idea that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

The lambda may also represent scales and balance, and the constant force that keeps opposing sides from overcoming each other. Reportedly, Ancient Greeks placed the lambda on the shields of Spartan warriors, who were often paired off with younger men in battle. There was a theory that warriors would fight more fiercely knowing that their lovers were both watching and fighting alongside them. Gender symbols are common astrological signs handed down from ancient Roman times. Gay men have used double interlocking male symbols since the s.

Double interlocking female symbols have often been used to denote lesbianism, but some feminists have instead used the double female symbols to represent the sisterhood of women. In the s, gay liberation movements used the male and female symbols superimposed to represent the common goals of lesbians and gay men. The ribbon made its public debut at the Tony Awards, but since then — in some circles — has become a popular and politically correct fashion statement for celebrities at other awards ceremonies.

Because of this popularity, some activists have rightly worried that the ribbon is simply paying lip service to AIDS causes. Today, the red ribbon is an international symbol and, for many, stands for care, concern, hope and support. Many towns, cities and authorities have some kind of group supporting LGBT people. Few are staffed and volunteers are their life blood, working tirelessly to raise LGBT issues and create a positive presence locally.

The original idea of a Forum was to act as community liaison with the police to ensure adequate service provision and a breakdown of barriers on the reporting of hate crime. Regularly updated, please contact us if you know of any groups or organisations not listed here. City of London No information. Do you know of anything? Hammersmith and Fulham No information. Kensington and Chelsea No presence. Redbridge Redbridge Rainbow Community. Waltham Forest No information. Also check out Duckie who do a weekly cabaret in Vauxhall showcasing all things queer and quirky as well as creating big, interactive shows like the recent Border Force which looked at queer perceptions around the world.

These companies are a little harder to find but once you track them down you begin to notice others like them popping up all around you. Although, by the same token, there are some truly terrible plays out there which you will probably want to avoid with a barge-pole. Without taking anything away from the up-and-coming generation of drag and queer artists, is it sooo bad to look back some of those who trail blazed and on whose bouffant hair they stand today? In the first 50 years of world cinema only a small number of films took homosexuality as a primary theme. With the rise of Nazi Germany, the film was banned and only fragments of the film survive.

The Motion Picture Production Code known as the Hays Code was introduced in and gay sexuality became invisible on screen unless suggested by coded reference. The London LGBT poetry scene is as prolific and diverse as the LGBT community and, in recent years, poetry has steadily crept into its collective consciousness as accessible, entertaining, and social. It has a myriad of styles, but is essentially creative writing that expresses the experience and lifestyle of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual persons in our society.

Hope you enjoy the links, more content coming soon. Mike Cooke Leader of the Council: Councillor Sarah Hayward Mayor: In recent years our health system has undergone profound change, with the Health and Social Care Act introducing the most wide-ranging reforms since the NHS was founded in A good doctor GP and dentist are hard to find, but a vital part of maintaining your health. This may seem absurd but disclosing your sexuality to your GP may mean that it is recorded on your medical notes.

These risks are particularly high in adolescence and early adulthood. Camden and Islington are estimated to have among the largest lesbian, gay and bisexual populations in the country, with 6, and 5, residents aged over 16 years, in Further data collection and analysis of characteristics in the future would provide a better understanding of the current local picture.

As is common these days, local authorities often contract services to charities or organisations in the voluntary sector. Lose weight with Rebalance A new weight management and exercise referral service is available for Camden and Islington residents from 1 April Email Rebalance. Lesley Seary Leader of the Council: Councillor Richard Watts Mayor: Primarily for professionals, this relatively new section includes a range of documents and organisations should find helpful when developing services for gay and bi men, men who have sex with men, and the wider LGBT community.

The 2nd European Chemsex Forum called for concrete actions at the local level to provide strategic resources to chemsex responders. This meeting report synthesises and summarises the proceedings and outcomes of the European ChemSex Forum and has been prepared by the organising committee in consultation with key partners. Briefing for commissioners and providers of drug and alcohol services highlights issues relating to men who have sexual contact with other men MSM a involved in chemsex. It contains background information, recent data, prompts for local areas and services, and case studies.

POTP had three main aims:. Briefing sheet downloads set out recommendations for commissioners and policy makers, GPs, drug and alcohol service providers, researchers, and the LGBT voluntary and community sector to tackle this significant public health issue. NEPTUNE has been developed to improve clinical practice in the management of harms resulting from the use of club drugs and novel psychoactive substances. It is aimed at clinicians working in a range of frontline settings, including drug treatment and recovery services, emergency departments, sexual health services, primary care and mental health services.

The report aims to encourage commissioners and providers of drug and alcohol treatment services to be more mindful of the support needs of LGBT people when planning and delivering services. Higher levels of both drug and alcohol use have been reported within LGBT populations, although these groups report being less likely to engage in traditional substance misuse services, citing lack of understanding of the substance use and cultural needs amongst the barriers.

This report presents evidence about the needs and priorities of LGBT communities in relation to hate crime. It includes analysis of an on-line community survey of LGBT people, which asked about experiences of hate crime and interactions with services. It also analyses interviews and written submissions from 18 individuals who have either experienced hate crime, or are professionals working on this issue. Additionally, it found that individuals face considerable barriers to accessing assistance in terms of policy, practice and legislation. Information on the number of hate crimes from police recorded data in England and Wales from April to March The bulletin covers the extent and trends in hate crime for all forces, with additional analysis based upon more detailed data supplied by 24 police forces on the types of offences associated with hate crime.

There are five centrally monitored strands of hate crime: The publication includes information on racist incidents in England and Wales recorded by the police from April to March This release includes an Annex on racially and religiously aggravated offences around the European Union EU referendum. Covers the following topics: Chemsex carries serious physical and mental health risks including the spread of blood-borne infections and viruses. PHE will support local areas to meet these needs by promoting and publishing guidance on effective practice, including targeted interventions and close collaboration between sexual health services and other relevant services including community groups.

This was included in the Strategy with a note that treatment services should consider the needs of LGBT groups. The importance of services speaking directly to specific communities is widely recognised, particularly when addressing problematic chemsex drug use, discussing sexual behaviour openly and addressing the multiple stigmas that accompany drug use, HIV, gay sex and sexual identity. It included a review of existing literature and data, and interviews with national stakeholders.

We then looked in detail at four geographical areas as case studies of how HIV services currently operate and the issues they face. We held five focus groups and interviewed around individuals, including direct input from 38 people living with HIV. We selected case study areas to give a diverse range of settings, including urban and rural areas, areas with high and low HIV prevalence, and a wide geographical spread north and south of the country, and London.

Help when you need it, a good read when you don't. What does gay mean? Sexuality, s ex, and gender Before we get to sexuality the gay bit, for the majority of you reading this there are some basics we should cover first: Your sex Your sex is based on the biological and physiological characteristics used to define people as male or female.

Your gender Your gender is how you feel about yourself: Gay and lesbian or homosexual if you are attracted to people of the same sex or gender Bisexual or bi if you are attracted to both men and women Straight or heterosexual if you are attracted to people of the opposite sex or gender Asexual if you are not sexually attracted to either men or women Back to top.

We are a trans-led team, who offer a safe, confidential space for those who may not feel comfortable accessing mainstream services. FTM London Support for transmen and transmasculine people. FTM London is a peer support group for female to male trans people, including transmasculine non-binary. Gendered Intelligence To increase understanding of gender diversity through creative ways.

Gender Trust For all those affected by gender identity issues. No contact details that we could find. Gender Matters Aims to improve the health, well-being and confidence of trans people by providing support and advice for them, their family and friends via blog format. GIRES To improve the lives of trans and gender non-conforming people, including those who are non-binary and non-gender. However, all members must be trans-identified or questioning. Tranzwiki Directory of the groups campaigning for, supporting or assisting trans and gender non-conforming individuals, including those who are non-binary and non-gender, as well as their families across the UK.

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Lots of theories have been put forward as to why we are gay including: Two stories for you … There are many coming out videos online today but these thoughful stories from Tom and Kima are both powerful and moving. Tom from Liverpool tomtom 4 May 12m 53s It can be really tough when you have this feeling that you are different in some way, without the words to put your finger on it and a fear that if you try to talk about it you will we laughed at, not taken seriously or rejected by family and friends.

How many gay people are there in the UK? The Office for National Statistics claims that just 1. British attitudes to lesbian, gay and bisexual people Stonewall Serves you right: What people of faith really think of homosexuality Stonewall Back to top. Why do I want to come out? Coming out to yourself Acknowledging that you are gay can take days, weeks, months, years or, in some cases, never. Coming out stories online There are many heartfelt and thoughtful coming out stories. Out and proud people Once considered a potential career-ending showstopper, a growing number of celebrities, professionals, and sportspersons have come out as gay and lesbian… and continue to do so.

Coming out films There are a ton of sensitively well-told coming out stories, and these are the films that have caught our eye. Where did the phrase come from? Who should I tell first? There are a number of typical responses that parents, particularly, are known to say: Where, when and how Choose somewhere neutral and safe Make sure you have time to sit down quietly together with plenty of time to talk Try not to over-script or sound too formal or give too much information at once Try to be calm and be non-confrontational Remember that this might be the first time they have thought of you this way Their first reaction might not be how they actually feel Remember that it probably took time for you to come to terms with it If the person you want to tell is stressed or tired it may be a good idea to delay Remember to also listen to what others have to say Give people a chance to think, and process and have time to get used to it Back to top.

Things people say When you come out to someone or say you are questioning your sexuality, people can come out with some rubbish. Bad coming out experience? Get help and support now! No ifs or buts. Support for your family This can be a difficult and traumatic time for some members of your family. You've told someone you're gay You are either balancing on the edge of an erupting volcano or dancing with joy on the moon — or both! In a Heartbeat Beth David and Esteban Bravo 31 Jul 4m05s Reassure them Reassure them that nothing has really changed, only their perception of you.

Time is a great healer Time is a great healer and things will get better. Here are a few examples of how parents and family can react negatively: I decided that I was going to continue to live my life as a gay man. I stopped going home as often as I used to and attending family occasions. It is only now, three years later, that they have begun to broach the subject with me. Everyone asked the usual embarrassing questions about girlfriends and I just had to smile and make excuses. When shall I tell them? Telling someone you're gay There is no rule that says you have to sit down and talk to others about this; there are other ways.

Your doctor and dentist A friendly, understanding, doctor GP or dentist can be hard to find, but they are vital parts of maintaining our health. Coming out at school If you are: And three things to remember: UK armed forces recruits to be asked if they are gay The Guardian Gays in the military: On both counts it is a worthwhile read.

Unions In a nutshell, trade unions represent people at work. There are many trade unions in the UK but here are a handful you may have heard of: Above all, be yourself! Heteronormativity Wikipedia Back to top. For more click here Childline ChildLine Private and confidential service for children and young people up to the age of Hanwell, Uxbridge and Kilburn address withheld Back to top. If you need a bed for the night Nightstop Alone in London No second night out No Second Night Out NSNO focuses on helping those who find themselves rough sleeping on the streets of London for the first time.

Stonewall Housing Stonewall Housing Helpline 10am-1pm, Monday — Friday Outside of these hours please complete an online referral here and you will be called back. Please remember to leave a contact phone number. No advice is given at the office address below without an appointment. Advice services Stonewall Housing gives advice about different housing related issues to hundreds of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender LGBT people every year.

Some of the housing issues include: Downloads and fact sheets Stonewall Housing has a range of downloads and fact sheets, including: Disrepair — common problems Asking the local authority for help with disrepair Rent arrears Citizens Advice Eviction for rent arrears Discrimination in housing Citizens Advice Overview of discrimination in housing Introduction summarising the main themes in discrimination in housing. Taking action Common situations Moving and improving your home Citizens Advice Buying a home Mortgage calculator Selling a home Problems with buying and selling a home Problems with selling your home — delayed completion and lease options contracts Help with home improvements Problems where you live Citizens Advice Fire safety in flats Neighbour disputes Anti-social behaviour in housing Deal with flooding in a rented home — overview Problems in your local environment Council tax Citizens Advice Properties exempt from council tax Who has to pay council tax How much is the council tax Empty homes premium for long-term empty properties How to pay council tax Arrears Appeals Particular circumstances Mortgage problems Citizens Advice Managing your mortgage How to sort out your mortgage problems What happens when your mortgage lender takes you to court Your mortgage lender takes you to court — how to prepare for the court hearing Eviction for mortgage arrears Back to top.

No place like home University of Surrey Safety Safety was a real concern for residents. Flat hunting tips Flat hunting tips from our own experiences: Try to be honest with yourself about a where you want to live, b who you want to live with, and c why When looking at a property, go with a friend and get a second opinion … making sure your friend is sensible! Make a complete budget of all your income and outgoings Find out precisely what you have to pay on top of the rent and if the bills are shared, etc Almost without exception, you are responsible for a TV licence.

If you get caught, the fines can be heavy! Landlords require references and deposits. Try and arrange this before you start looking If you have ANY doubts, concerns or queries, get professional advice BEFORE you agree to or sign anything Make sure you understand the terms you agree under which you hand over the deposit, and get it back when you leave Read all contracts and agreements carefully — including the weeny small print Get written receipts for all transactions Keep notes and write stuff down Think very carefully before moving in with an ex, sleeping with the landlord, sleeping with a flatmate or the partner of a flatmate or the best friend of a flatmate you get where this is going Back to top.

Gay conversion therapy In , German psychiatrist Albert von Schrenck-Notzing announced at the first International of Hypnotism conference that he had turned a gay man straight. Here is everything you need to know about it inews. Homophobia Homophobia is the active targeting of lesbians and gay men based on ignorance, fear and prejudice. Hate incidents and hate crime Hate incidents and hate crime are acts of hostility or violence directed at people because of who they are or who someone thinks they are.

Examples of hate crimes assaults verbal abuse or threats criminal damage harassment murder sexual assault theft fraud burglary hate mail Malicious Communications Act causing harassment, alarm or distress Public Order Act Bullying in school While this section focuses on people in school or college, bullying still occurs in the workplace and other settings. If you are experiencing bullying If you are experiencing homophobic bullying at school, you may be: There are people and organisations who can listen to you, understand you, and respect your confidentiality Do not make contact or engage with the bully Do not delete anything you receive.

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Mental health matters We have a large and rather wonderful section on head stuff and your mental health, click away below: Sigma Research Sigma Research is a social research group specialising in the behavioural and policy aspects of HIV and sexual health. Sigma Research Sigma Research State of play: LGBT rights Though there has been progress in the past 50 years or so for LGBT people around the world, it remains a divisive, religious, and political issue.

Since then, the laws are extended across Russia. Amnesty International UK Amnesty International UK works to protect men, women and children wherever justice, freedom, truth and dignity are denied. Human Rights Watch Human Rights Watch HRW is a non-profit, non-governmental human rights organisation made up of roughly staff members around the globe.

International lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans and intersex association ILGA ILGA is a worldwide federation of more than 1, member organisations from countries campaigning for lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans and intersex rights. Peter Tatchell Foundation PTF Seeks to promote and protect the human rights of individuals, communities and nations, in the UK and internationally, in accordance with established national and international human rights law.

Global Voices Border-less, largely volunteer community of more than 1, writers, analysts, on-line media experts, and translators. Global Voices Global Voices Back to top. Age of consent The age of consent in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland is 16 regardless of sexual orientation or gender. It humiliates, degrades, intimidates, insults, excludes, silences or harms us on the basis of our actual or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity. The term homophobia was coined in the late s by psychologist George Weinberg. Time For Love explores homophobia in modern society, and also the concept of normality.

Many of us grow up, come out and have wonderful and happy lives. For others, the journey can be rockier. Just this week I met a young man who told me he hated gay pride, hated effeminate men but crucially was trying to work through these feelings by talking about them. Hate incidents and hate crime are acts of hostility or violence directed at people because of who they are or who someone thinks they are.

The police and Crown Prosecution Service have agreed a common definition of hate incidents. They say something is a hate incident if the victim or anyone else think it was motivated by hostility or prejudice based on:. All police forces record hate incidents based on these five personal characteristics. Click link below for full report. Any criminal offence can be a hate crime if it was carried out because of hostility or prejudice based on disability, race, religion, transgender identity or sexual orientation.

When something is classed as a hate crime, the judge can impose a tougher sentence on the offender under the Criminal Justice Act Incidents which are based on other personal characteristics, such as age and belonging to an alternative subculture, are not considered to be hate crimes under the law. You can still report these, but they will not be prosecuted specifically as hate crimes by the police and the Crown Prosecution Service. For example, you could be a friend, neighbour, family member, support worker or simply a passer-by. When reporting the incident or crime you should say whether you think it was because of disability, race, religion, transgender identity, sexual orientation or a combination of these things.

This is important because it makes sure the police record it as a hate incident or crime. Although the police can only charge and prosecute someone when the law has been broken, there are other things the police can do to help you deal with incident. But sometimes, you may be repeatedly harassed by the same person or group of people. While this section focuses on people in school or college, bullying still occurs in the workplace and other settings.

Bullying can cause long-lasting damage to young people and badly affects the schools and colleges that take no measures to tackle it. Homophobia can affect any pupil or student, whether they are lesbian, gay, bisexual or straight, and this form of bullying can be especially confusing, vicious, isolating, and life-changing.

All schools have a duty of care to ensure the safety of, and to protect the emotional well being of, every person in their care. Schools need to be aware of the homophobia endemic in British schools, and its effects on learning, health, and self-esteem. We have laid deep foundations across Britain — in some of our greatest institutions — so our communities can continue to find ways to flourish, and individuals can reach their full potential. But our work is not finished yet.

Not until everyone feels free to be who they are, wherever they are. This report, the first of a series based on the research, investigates their experiences of homophobic, biphobic and transphobic hate crimes and day-to-day discrimination. The study looks at these hate crimes and if they have been reported or not. It also looks at discrimination LGBT people face in their daily lives, for example when they walk down the street, when visiting shops and cafes, when accessing public services or when trying to rent a new home. They are not and, without throwing the non-binary baby out with the bath water, we would do well to remember this.

Legal rights were won by LGBTQ people who were spat at, reviled by the press, demonised by large swaths of the public, persecuted by the law, incarcerated, chemically castrated and driven to suicide. A long road to equality Kings College London 28 Jul 2m 11s. We have a large and rather wonderful section on head stuff and your mental health, click away below:. Sigma Research is a social research group specialising in the behavioural and policy aspects of HIV and sexual health. It also undertakes research and development work on aspects of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender LGBT health and well-being.

In , Sigma Research carried out an on-the-spot survey of men attending the London Lesbian and Gay Pride festival, instigating an annual survey that has grown to be the largest in the world and an institution on the UK summer gay scene. The content of the survey is developed in collaboration with health promoters, within the framework of Making it Count The questions cover a range of demographics, health indicators, sexual behaviours, HIV prevention needs, use of settings in which health promotion can occur and recognition of national interventions.

The weight given to each area varies each year, and the data collected is treated as cumulative, building a detailed picture of gay men and bisexual men and HIV over time. Though there has been progress in the past 50 years or so for LGBT people around the world, it remains a divisive, religious, and political issue. While some countries have decriminalised homosexuality, outlawed homophobic hate crimes and over 20 countries recognise same-sex marriage; others are becoming increasingly oppressive, and brutal, like Chechnya.

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Having sex with someone of the same sex remains illegal in over 70 countries, and punishable by death in Amnesty International UK works to protect men, women and children wherever justice, freedom, truth and dignity are denied. It investigates and exposes abuses, educates and mobilises the public, and helps transform societies to create a safer, more just world.

It has received the Nobel Peace Prize for its life-saving work. We all have the right to be treated as equals, regardless of our gender identity or sexuality. But being lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual or intersex is a crime in many countries around the world. Human Rights Watch HRW is a non-profit, non-governmental human rights organisation made up of roughly staff members around the globe.

Its staff consists of human rights professionals including country experts, lawyers, journalists, and academics of diverse backgrounds and nationalities. Established in , HRW is known for its accurate fact-finding, impartial reporting, effective use of media, and targeted advocacy, often in partnership with local human rights groups.

It publishes an annual world report and a map on legislation criminalising or protecting people on the basis of their sexual orientation or recognising their relationships. Seeks to promote and protect the human rights of individuals, communities and nations, in the UK and internationally, in accordance with established national and international human rights law. The PTF seeks to raise awareness, understanding, protection and implementation of human rights, in the UK and worldwide.

This involves research, education, advice, casework, publicity and advocacy for the enforcement and furtherance of human rights law. Collaborative knowledge base for the LGBT lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender movement. Border-less, largely volunteer community of more than 1, writers, analysts, on-line media experts, and translators. It curates, verifies and translates trending news and stories that you might be missing on the Internet, from blogs, independent press and social media in countries.

The age of consent in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland is 16 regardless of sexual orientation or gender. The age of consent in Ireland is The age of consent in other EU countries varies. By , many European countries had reduced the age of consent for homosexual acts to 16, but it remained at 21 in the United Kingdom. Having only been decriminalised in , the wording of the legislation to decriminalise also included wording that placed restrictions such as making illegal the use of a hotel room for sex. Ann Widdecombe Clip starts at 14m40s Against the motion: Stephen Fry Clip starts at 21m01s.

So, here are a handful of vlogs that have caught our eye, and our selection. While some vlogs remain inspirational, they are two-for-a-penny these days. The initials LGBT stand for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender or transsexual. Or, to put it another way, anyone who is not straight heterosexual. Before we were called gay, the term homosexual was, and to some extent still is, used.

We often use labels because they fit and better connect us with others like us. The thing about labels is that you cut them out and replace them with your own. What you call yourself is up to you. The important thing is that you choose what feels comfortable for you. There is a growing movement of people who refuse to be labelled and are striking out to define themselves on their own terms. Gay men, particularly, are often reduced to sexually transmitted infections, sexual acts, or hedonism when, in fact, we are of course so much more.

People, the media especially, will define us in whatever ways are convenient and easy, often at the expense of accuracy and recognising our individuality. While some of us may be gay, lesbian, bi or trans or whatever we choose to call ourselves we are also parents, workers, learners and explorers. Over many years, lesbian and gay communities around the world have used symbols to identify who we are.

Often worn as badges and displayed as flags, some of the better known symbols include the rainbow flag, the pink triangle, the lambda and gender symbols. Probably the most recognisable symbol today is the rainbow flag, but other symbols have been an integral part of our history in the fight for recognition and equality. While the red ribbon is not a symbol of being gay, many gay men wear it, which is why it is interpreted by some as an indication that the wearer is gay; this is not necessarily so.

Use of the rainbow flag by the gay community began in when San Francisco artist Gilbert Baker designed the rainbow flag in response to the need for a symbol that could be used year after year. The flags had eight stripes, each colour representing a component of the community: Due to production difficulties hot pink was not commercially available , pink and turquoise were removed from the design, and royal blue replaced indigo.

This six-colour version spread from San Francisco to other cities, and soon became the widely known symbol of gay pride and diversity that it is today. Paragraph , a clause in German law, prohibited homosexual relationships. Convicted offenders were sent to prison, and then later to concentration camps. Their punishment was to be sterilized, and this was most often accomplished by castration. In , punishment for homosexuality was extended to death. Concentration camp prisoners each wore a coloured inverted triangle to designate the reason for their incarceration.

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Criminals wore a green triangle, political prisoners a red triangle, Jewish prisoners two overlapping yellow triangles to form a Star of David and the pink triangle was for homosexuals. Stories of the camps reveal that homosexual prisoners were given the worst tasks and were the focus of attacks by the guards and other inmates. Although homosexuals were only one of the many groups targeted for extermination by the Nazi regime, it is, unfortunately, our group that history often excludes.

Estimates of the number of gay men killed during the Nazi regime range from 50, to twice that figure. In the s, gay liberation groups resurrected the pink triangle as a symbol for the gay rights movement. Not only is the symbol easily recognized, but it also draws attention to oppression and persecution — then and now. They inverted the symbol, making it point up, to signify an active fight-back rather than a passive resignation to fate. Today, for many, the pink triangle represents pride, solidarity, and a promise to never allow another Holocaust to happen again.

Lambda may also denote the synergy of the gay movement, the idea that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. The lambda may also represent scales and balance, and the constant force that keeps opposing sides from overcoming each other. Reportedly, Ancient Greeks placed the lambda on the shields of Spartan warriors, who were often paired off with younger men in battle.

There was a theory that warriors would fight more fiercely knowing that their lovers were both watching and fighting alongside them. Gender symbols are common astrological signs handed down from ancient Roman times. Gay men have used double interlocking male symbols since the s. Double interlocking female symbols have often been used to denote lesbianism, but some feminists have instead used the double female symbols to represent the sisterhood of women. In the s, gay liberation movements used the male and female symbols superimposed to represent the common goals of lesbians and gay men.

The ribbon made its public debut at the Tony Awards, but since then — in some circles — has become a popular and politically correct fashion statement for celebrities at other awards ceremonies. Because of this popularity, some activists have rightly worried that the ribbon is simply paying lip service to AIDS causes.

Today, the red ribbon is an international symbol and, for many, stands for care, concern, hope and support. Many towns, cities and authorities have some kind of group supporting LGBT people. Few are staffed and volunteers are their life blood, working tirelessly to raise LGBT issues and create a positive presence locally.

In the first 50 years of world cinema only a small number of films took homosexuality as a primary theme. With the rise of Nazi Germany, the film was banned and only fragments of the film survive. The Motion Picture Production Code known as the Hays Code was introduced in and gay sexuality became invisible on screen unless suggested by coded reference. The London LGBT poetry scene is as prolific and diverse as the LGBT community and, in recent years, poetry has steadily crept into its collective consciousness as accessible, entertaining, and social.

It has a myriad of styles, but is essentially creative writing that expresses the experience and lifestyle of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual persons in our society. Hope you enjoy the links, more content coming soon. Mike Cooke Leader of the Council: Councillor Sarah Hayward Mayor: In recent years our health system has undergone profound change, with the Health and Social Care Act introducing the most wide-ranging reforms since the NHS was founded in A good doctor GP and dentist are hard to find, but a vital part of maintaining your health.

This may seem absurd but disclosing your sexuality to your GP may mean that it is recorded on your medical notes. These risks are particularly high in adolescence and early adulthood. Camden and Islington are estimated to have among the largest lesbian, gay and bisexual populations in the country, with 6, and 5, residents aged over 16 years, in Further data collection and analysis of characteristics in the future would provide a better understanding of the current local picture.

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NEPTUNE has been developed to improve clinical practice in the management of harms resulting from the use of club drugs and novel psychoactive substances. It is aimed at clinicians working in a range of frontline settings, including drug treatment and recovery services, emergency departments, sexual health services, primary care and mental health services. The report aims to encourage commissioners and providers of drug and alcohol treatment services to be more mindful of the support needs of LGBT people when planning and delivering services. Higher levels of both drug and alcohol use have been reported within LGBT populations, although these groups report being less likely to engage in traditional substance misuse services, citing lack of understanding of the substance use and cultural needs amongst the barriers.

Additionally, it found that individuals face considerable barriers to accessing assistance in terms of policy, practice and legislation. Information on the number of hate crimes from police recorded data in England and Wales from April to March The bulletin covers the extent and trends in hate crime for all forces, with additional analysis based upon more detailed data supplied by 24 police forces on the types of offences associated with hate crime. There are five centrally monitored strands of hate crime: The publication includes information on racist incidents in England and Wales recorded by the police from April to March This release includes an Annex on racially and religiously aggravated offences around the European Union EU referendum.

Covers the following topics: Chemsex carries serious physical and mental health risks including the spread of blood-borne infections and viruses. PHE will support local areas to meet these needs by promoting and publishing guidance on effective practice, including targeted interventions and close collaboration between sexual health services and other relevant services including community groups. This was included in the Strategy with a note that treatment services should consider the needs of LGBT groups. The importance of services speaking directly to specific communities is widely recognised, particularly when addressing problematic chemsex drug use, discussing sexual behaviour openly and addressing the multiple stigmas that accompany drug use, HIV, gay sex and sexual identity.

It included a review of existing literature and data, and interviews with national stakeholders. We then looked in detail at four geographical areas as case studies of how HIV services currently operate and the issues they face. We held five focus groups and interviewed around individuals, including direct input from 38 people living with HIV. We selected case study areas to give a diverse range of settings, including urban and rural areas, areas with high and low HIV prevalence, and a wide geographical spread north and south of the country, and London. Help when you need it, a good read when you don't.

What does gay mean? Sexuality, s ex, and gender Before we get to sexuality the gay bit, for the majority of you reading this there are some basics we should cover first: Your sex Your sex is based on the biological and physiological characteristics used to define people as male or female. Your gender Your gender is how you feel about yourself: Gay and lesbian or homosexual if you are attracted to people of the same sex or gender Bisexual or bi if you are attracted to both men and women Straight or heterosexual if you are attracted to people of the opposite sex or gender Asexual if you are not sexually attracted to either men or women Back to top.

Organisations and further information Beaumont Society As a UK registered charity, our primary focus is the transgender individual. CliniQ Holistic sexual health and well-being service for all trans people, partners and friends. We are a trans-led team, who offer a safe, confidential space for those who may not feel comfortable accessing mainstream services. FTM London Support for transmen and transmasculine people. FTM London is a peer support group for female to male trans people, including transmasculine non-binary.

Gendered Intelligence To increase understanding of gender diversity through creative ways. Gender Trust For all those affected by gender identity issues. No contact details that we could find. Gender Matters Aims to improve the health, well-being and confidence of trans people by providing support and advice for them, their family and friends via blog format.

GIRES To improve the lives of trans and gender non-conforming people, including those who are non-binary and non-gender. However, all members must be trans-identified or questioning. Tranzwiki Directory of the groups campaigning for, supporting or assisting trans and gender non-conforming individuals, including those who are non-binary and non-gender, as well as their families across the UK.

What makes us gay? Lots of theories have been put forward as to why we are gay including: Two stories for you … There are many coming out videos online today but these thoughful stories from Tom and Kima are both powerful and moving. Tom from Liverpool tomtom 4 May 12m 53s It can be really tough when you have this feeling that you are different in some way, without the words to put your finger on it and a fear that if you try to talk about it you will we laughed at, not taken seriously or rejected by family and friends.

The bottom line is: Growing up gay For many young gay or bisexual people adolescence can be a particular time of anxiety and fear and later may look back on this part of their lives with sadness and regret. Check out our links right for support groups in London and helplines. How many gay people are there in the UK? The Office for National Statistics claims that just 1. British attitudes to lesbian, gay and bisexual people Stonewall Serves you right: What people of faith really think of homosexuality Stonewall Back to top.

Why do I want to come out? Coming out to yourself Acknowledging that you are gay can take days, weeks, months, years or, in some cases, never. Coming out stories online There are many heartfelt and thoughtful coming out stories. Out and proud people Once considered a potential career-ending showstopper, a growing number of celebrities, professionals, and sportspersons have come out as gay and lesbian… and continue to do so. Coming out films There are a ton of sensitively well-told coming out stories, and these are the films that have caught our eye. Where did the phrase come from?

Who should I tell first? There are a number of typical responses that parents, particularly, are known to say: Where, when and how Choose somewhere neutral and safe Make sure you have time to sit down quietly together with plenty of time to talk Try not to over-script or sound too formal or give too much information at once Try to be calm and be non-confrontational Remember that this might be the first time they have thought of you this way Their first reaction might not be how they actually feel Remember that it probably took time for you to come to terms with it If the person you want to tell is stressed or tired it may be a good idea to delay Remember to also listen to what others have to say Give people a chance to think, and process and have time to get used to it Back to top.

In a Heartbeat Beth David and Esteban Bravo 31 Jul 4m05s Reassure them Reassure them that nothing has really changed, only their perception of you. Time is a great healer Time is a great healer and things will get better. Here are a few examples of how parents and family can react negatively: I decided that I was going to continue to live my life as a gay man. I stopped going home as often as I used to and attending family occasions. It is only now, three years later, that they have begun to broach the subject with me. Everyone asked the usual embarrassing questions about girlfriends and I just had to smile and make excuses.

When shall I tell them? Telling someone you're gay There is no rule that says you have to sit down and talk to others about this; there are other ways. Your doctor and dentist A friendly, understanding, doctor GP or dentist can be hard to find, but they are vital parts of maintaining our health. Coming out at school If you are: And three things to remember: UK armed forces recruits to be asked if they are gay The Guardian Gays in the military: On both counts it is a worthwhile read. Unions In a nutshell, trade unions represent people at work.

There are many trade unions in the UK but here are a handful you may have heard of: Above all, be yourself! Heteronormativity Wikipedia Back to top. For more click here Childline ChildLine Private and confidential service for children and young people up to the age of Hanwell, Uxbridge and Kilburn address withheld Back to top.

If you need a bed for the night Nightstop Alone in London No second night out No Second Night Out NSNO focuses on helping those who find themselves rough sleeping on the streets of London for the first time. Stonewall Housing Stonewall Housing Helpline 10am-1pm, Monday — Friday Outside of these hours please complete an online referral here and you will be called back. Please remember to leave a contact phone number. No advice is given at the office address below without an appointment. Advice services Stonewall Housing gives advice about different housing related issues to hundreds of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender LGBT people every year.

Shelter Shelter advice and support services across the UK give people one-to-one, personalised help with all of their housing issues. Emergency helpline If your situation is urgent you could call our emergency helpline if: Shelter Emergency housing Shelter Who is eligible to apply for council housing? Nightstop Nightstop provides free overnight accommodation in the home of a volunteer. No place like home University of Surrey Safety Safety was a real concern for residents. Flat hunting tips Flat hunting tips from our own experiences: Try to be honest with yourself about a where you want to live, b who you want to live with, and c why When looking at a property, go with a friend and get a second opinion … making sure your friend is sensible!

Make a complete budget of all your income and outgoings Find out precisely what you have to pay on top of the rent and if the bills are shared, etc Almost without exception, you are responsible for a TV licence. If you get caught, the fines can be heavy! Landlords require references and deposits. Try and arrange this before you start looking If you have ANY doubts, concerns or queries, get professional advice BEFORE you agree to or sign anything Make sure you understand the terms you agree under which you hand over the deposit, and get it back when you leave Read all contracts and agreements carefully — including the weeny small print Get written receipts for all transactions Keep notes and write stuff down Think very carefully before moving in with an ex, sleeping with the landlord, sleeping with a flatmate or the partner of a flatmate or the best friend of a flatmate you get where this is going Back to top.

They say something is a hate incident if the victim or anyone else think it was motivated by hostility or prejudice based on: Examples of hate incidents: Gaydar, Grindr, Facebook, Twitter displaying or circulating discriminatory literature or posters harm or damage to things such as your home, pet, vehicle graffiti arson malicious complaints, for example over parking, smells or noise. Examples of hate crimes assaults verbal abuse or threats criminal damage harassment murder sexual assault theft fraud burglary hate mail Malicious Communications Act causing harassment, alarm or distress Public Order Act Bullying in school While this section focuses on people in school or college, bullying still occurs in the workplace and other settings.

If you are experiencing bullying If you are experiencing homophobic bullying at school, you may be: There are people and organisations who can listen to you, understand you, and respect your confidentiality Do not make contact or engage with the bully Do not delete anything you receive. For help to take screen shots: But what happened next? Mental health matters We have a large and rather wonderful section on head stuff and your mental health, click away below: Sigma Research Sigma Research is a social research group specialising in the behavioural and policy aspects of HIV and sexual health.

Sigma Research Sigma Research State of play: LGBT rights Though there has been progress in the past 50 years or so for LGBT people around the world, it remains a divisive, religious, and political issue. Since then, the laws are extended across Russia. Amnesty International UK Amnesty International UK works to protect men, women and children wherever justice, freedom, truth and dignity are denied. Human Rights Watch Human Rights Watch HRW is a non-profit, non-governmental human rights organisation made up of roughly staff members around the globe.