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Some of the words are for concepts that exist in other cultures, but are not translatable into English with a single word, so it requires conceptual combination — your brain has to combine the concepts that you know, so that you can understand these concepts in other cultures.
I describe these findings in my book and explain the neuroscience behind them. People believe that all great things in life are achieved, all meaning in life is achieved, through happiness, but at a different time in our history, sadness was thought to be a way of cultivating a meaningful life, and in a way that impacted your health. She said her cheeks hurt for a year! Her Russian grandmother has this view of life which is: I just thought that was fantastic.
What made you choose this book? A number of reasons. To start with, I just really love the story.
And it also illustrates two really good insights into emotions as they really are, and how emotions are really made. Jeffrey presents some descriptions of emotion concepts that have no single word associated with them. I experienced that emotion this morning.
Exactly true, a great big tub that you can really soak in. When I get to the end of a bag of potato chips, I usually feel relieved, but also sad, and a little bit guilty.
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I have to explain it to you with multiple words, so you understand all the features of my experience. The second reason that I really like the book is that it takes on an assumption that is pervasive in the science of emotion, and in science generally — certain sciences more than others.
By having an intersex protagonist, Eugenides takes on the assumption that categories cut nature at its joints, that nature has joints to be cut. This needs a little bit of explanation. A category is basically a group of objects, or items, or people, or events, a group of things, that are similar in some way. Many of the things that we put into the same category, we assume are similar in a physical way, that the similarities exist in the physical world.
This means you are assuming that all instances of anger are physically similar in the facial movements people use to express anger. There are a number of scientific approaches to emotion that assume an emotion category — all the instances of anger — are physically similar in some way. In fact tech companies are spending right now millions of dollars to develop emotion reading technologies based on this belief. Essentialism assumes that similarities are in the world, rather than in your head. For example, if we said: Most characteristics not all, but most are created by combinations of different genes — so more than one set of features can create a characteristic.
Natural selection works only because there is this variation within a category. A biological category like sex works the same way.
Books can be powerful tools to help young children make sense of these feelings. Annual Conference - Save the Date! Gratitude is a very powerful game changer. Experts and facts no longer seem capable of settling arguments to the extent that they once did, while trust in the media in particular is in free fall. Something triggers your fear circuit, say, like seeing a snake, and you react.
Depending on which characteristics you focus on, between. But our culture believes so much in the essential nature of being male and female that physicians physically alter with surgery intersex babies so that they fit into one category or the other. This has a parallel to the science of emotion, because many scientists hold the common sense view that emotion categories have essential features with firm boundaries in nature. I cover some of this evidence in my book. Was he a proponent of the classical view of emotion? William James wrote a wonderful summary of what was known and what questions were being asked at the dawn of psychology as a science in the 19th century.
James is widely mis-cited and misunderstood as someone who advocated for a classical, common sense view of emotion. The irony is that he advocated for just the opposite. In the 19th century, psychology as a science was born when people started to use the methods of neurology and physiology to search for the physical basis of mental categories that came from mental philosophy.
William James is sometimes considered the father of American psychology, primarily because he wrote extremely well, and he captured ideas that were in the zeitgeist at the time. He was just a really thoughtful, interesting thinker.
James wrote that emotions occur when people perceive and make sense of the physical changes in their bodies. He wrote that each emotion has its own physical change. So he has been cited over and over again as saying something that is exactly the opposite of what he actually did say. I discuss this in my book. Basically, James was saying that an emotion category does not have a physical essence. The average US middle class family has 3. Here James capturing beautifully the importance of variation. He also foreshadows many other insights that science has now shown to be true, like: Emotions are created based on the all-purpose mechanisms that already exist in our brain.
The cardinal passions of our life, anger, love, fear, hate, hope, and the most comprehensive divisions of our intellectual activity, to remember, expect, think, know, dream, with the broadest genera of aesthetic feeling, joy, sorrow, pleasure, pain, are the only facts of a subjective order which this vocabulary deigns to note by special words. What he means by that is: William James is often cited in our interviews about the mind and the brain, especially this book and his Varieties of Religious Experience.
I would say, though, that when I was a graduate student I use to feel like William James was a bit of a projective test. About the nature of psychological categories, mental categories, and so on. I only moved to Northeastern University about seven years ago, but Dave DeSteno has been doing this work on positive emotions — gratitude, compassion, and so on — for a number of years.
So I have been really captivated by the persistent findings in research about the ways in which emotions like gratitude and compassion — and I would add awe — are really beneficial. I love scientific findings that cause me to question my own beliefs and values. Some of those will be pleasant, and some of those will be unpleasant; but the argument that I make, based on neuroscience, is that if you cultivate experiences that are unfamiliar to you, curate your experiences by putting in a little effort, eventually your brain will just automatically make those emotions with ease when you need them.
Ten ways to think yourself healthy, that sort of thing. I knew of anecdotal evidence, the thousands of people who swear by gratitude journals. I explain the nuts and bolts of it in my book. Gratitude is a very powerful game changer.
So is awe, the emotion of awe. Buddhist philosophy also really emphasises compassion. There is scientific evidence that these emotions really are helpful. When I pick up a popular book on positive psychology, my first impulse is to have my eyes roll back in my head.
I could nitpick about some of his metaphors, like one very popular notion in our culture: Your final choice is another example of using scientific findings to improve our lives, and another common pick on Five Books: Stumbling on Happiness, by Daniel Gilbert. It takes on some pretty important scientific and philosophical topics that are usually presented in a complex and difficult way. Dan writes about scientific evidence in a very accessible way.
At the same time, he manages to communicate these incredibly powerful and important ideas in a straightforward, understandable way. One of the ideas in this book is that minds are predictive, not reactive. There are two other books, The Predictive Mind , and Surfing Uncertainty , which take on some of these ideas in a little bit more detail.
He points this out in really funny, poignant, and I think deep and important ways. What are the benefits of understanding how we construct emotions? How can we apply this knowledge in a way that will improve our lives? You experience emotions, you perceive emotions, this is the currency of a human life.
As if something is being expressed the way that you would read words on a page. In the book, and in my TED talk , I gave this example: How do you know the heart and mind of a defendant? Well, people believe it is through their facial movements. Try these research-based tips to nurture a lifelong love of books and to maximize the joy and learning of book-reading.
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