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At the precise point where we refuse, growth stops. If we hold tightly to anything given to us, unwilling to let it go when the time comes to let it go or unwilling to allow it to be used as the Giver means it to be used, we stunt the growth of the soul. I can do what I want with it. The truth is that it is ours to thank Him for and ours to offer back to Him, ours to relinquish, ours to lose, ours to let go of — if we want to find our true selves, if we want real life, if our hearts are set on glory.
Love because the hurt will come and go no matter what, but only love makes it worth while. Only love can cure it. Let go… you are a part of everything. Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass. The pain we encounter throughout our days spent on this earth comes from the illusion that some moments can be held onto. Clinging to people and experiences that were never ours in the first place is what causes us to miss out on the beauty of the miracle that is the now.
All of this is yours, yet none of it is.
How could it be? To love and let go, love and let go, love and let go No, no, that's wrong. It's never right to give up on someone. I could still feel him holding back. It was my penance for what I had done to him. All I could do was hope the walls would fall and that I could have all of him again, but I was always leaving and he was tired of watching me walk away.
If you want to move forward, you need to let go the past that drags you down. The Voice of a Mountain Bird. If it goes, it's ok, let it go.
Let things come and go. Stay calm, don't let anything disturb your peace, and carry on. Fear of failure, in itself, is debilitating. But that fear is almost always rooted in fear of rejection or judgment from those around them.
What you need to separate is everyone else's fears within themselves and your own feelings. The two are not the same. People who give up on their dreams tend to experience failure once, and then attach themselves to that title. Unfortunately, most people don't practice this skill. They don't like waiting for things, don't like practicing patience, don't see the value in withholding short-term rewards for longer-term gains.
But if you focus on the process, you'll find yourself waking up morning after morning realizing, "Wow, I've come such a long way.
They want everyone else around them to do the heavy lifting, to cheer them on, to give them the money they need, to give them some sense of "guarantee. If you surround yourself with negative, unproductive people who don't have dreams of their own, then guess what? The truth is, most people can't explain it because they aren't even sure themselves. And instead of continuing on the journey of self-discovery, they decide to give up altogether.
One of two things happen as a result: You spend more time planning to act than acting, or you devote minimal energy to multiple plans instead of committing to one solid approach. Instead of drowning in all the data, why not narrow it down and start again from a less overwhelming space? In all reality, no one ever judges us like we judge ourselves, and we always grow and learn through the process of striving, regardless of what we attain. Great power comes with great responsibility, but it also brings great rewards.
If you act in that moment of intense emotion—be it anger, fear, or frustration—you may regret it once the wave has passed. Feel it fully, without judging it or yourself. This may not sound motivational, but sometimes giving up is actually good thing. Perhaps you set a completely unrealistic goal and the pursuit of it is filling you with a constant sense of inadequacy and anxiety.
You could easily use this as a justification to delude yourself, so think about it carefully. Is this goal really a good thing, when you weigh all the consequences of its fulfillment?
How invested are you? How much money and time have you devoted? How many sacrifices have you made?
Or would you practice your finest motivational speech and help her see what you see in her potential? It may sound kind of cheesy, but you need to be your own best friend.
And I mean honest. How much money and time have you devoted? Just a moment while we sign you in to your Goodreads account. It is time to bury it because it is smelling up your life and no one wants to be near your rotted corpse of memories and decaying attitude. After my internships I slowly started getting jobs further and further away from what I went to school for which in the end made me forget a lot that I learned in that short period of time.
You, more than anyone in this world, deserve your belief and motivation. Bet you feel so relieved! Take a different approach if you need to. Scale back your time commitment to something you can more easily maintain.