The book Under Her Thumb is edited by D. King and includes The book Under Her Thumb will give fans of femdom a delightful treat, and for me it was a refreshing twist of kink. King and includes a forward by Midori. It includes 21 stories by various authors. Verten, and Veronica Wilde. My favorite tales from book are ones that really stuck with me. I found myself thinking about the characters later, the situations they find themselves in and the exchanges they had.
La Sexoricista by Valerie Alexander was one such tale about a man obsessed with his Dom. The Dom cuts him off and he will do anything to get over her. He hire's a pro and gets a big surprise. Blame Spartacus by Laura Antoniou was another memorable tale. Sexy gladiators is what really turns this Dom on. Well written and very sexy. The Dinner Part by Anne Grip was haunting. This story is about a man in the middle of a contract to his Dom. This story was written from his perspective and it just talks about the dinner party and how she uses him, and how he loves it.
It also describes the longing and fear he has for his contract to be up. There are many other stories I want to highlight for you, but I don't want to give up the whole book. I found the first half of the book was not as exciting as the second. The second half of the book makes this book was well worth getting. I loved it for the variety in the femdom kink and how the authors lay it out and describe why it works. I have never read stories like these, they are eye-opening and very hot! Apr 11, Avory rated it it was amazing Shelves: I found this anthology absolutely delightful, showcasing the humanity of realistically-portrayed dominant women rather than relying on everyone's favorite bitch goddess in heels that practically hobble her trope.
This is another anthology that starts with a very strong first story, Andrea Zanin's "Quiet," and I love how the protagonist acknowledges this trope and the struggle of being a female dominant in public playspaces. Tonight, she has been on display. This was not her intention. It doesn't I found this anthology absolutely delightful, showcasing the humanity of realistically-portrayed dominant women rather than relying on everyone's favorite bitch goddess in heels that practically hobble her trope.
It doesn't matter that she dressed up for her own pleasure [ They are populated by men who see only their fantasies come to life, not the flesh-and-blood women in front of them. These men do not notice his devotion, or his beauty. They see only her, and only her contours, at that. The same story also looks at how male submissive beauty is either ignored or fit into incorrect assumptions. This is not humiliation. There is nothing humiliating about being beautiful or about being feminine. She, herself, is both of those things, and many more.
She cannot fathom how encouraging these qualities and others could possibly be shameful or worthy of mockery. There is also nothing humiliating about submission. It is a gift and all the finer when given selectively. I want to put that quote on my bedroom wall, just saying. Another highlight of the anthology is Rachel Kramer Bussel's "Subdar," a delightful first-encounter story featuring a salt-and-pepper instinctive sub whom you kind of just want to take home and cuddle or do dirty things to, perhaps simultaneously. I love the quiet power of the female character as she has him simply kneel in a public restroom while she's on the toilet.
On a completely different tone, I appreciated the downright dirty multiple-femmes-on-blindfolded-boy queer story, "The Dinner Party," which Anne Grip opens with a lovely image of a woman's floral party dress showing off the silhouette of what she's packing underneath. Erotica lovers that enjoy reading femdom stories, or who at least have an interest in sampling literate representatives of the genre, should seriously consider adding Under Her Thumb: Erotic Stories of Female Domination to their personal library.
This latest erotica anthology edited by D. King is comprised of twenty-one short stories that explore many different facets of female domination in heterosexual, lesbian and bisexual scenarios, each of which is a refreshingly original and sexy read. Wh Erotica lovers that enjoy reading femdom stories, or who at least have an interest in sampling literate representatives of the genre, should seriously consider adding Under Her Thumb: What I find most appealing about these stories is the absence of poorly written stereotypical characters and situations commonly found in BDSM and femdom literature.
As a reviewer in those genres, I am perhaps more sensitized to those shortcomings than most readers. Often I have to struggle to be objective as I slog through books and short stories with trite plots or no plot at all , unoriginal characters, and banal dialogue. That was not the case here.
Each and every story was delightfully imaginative and held my interest throughout. The kink level in these stories varies from relatively light to fairly intense, but it is always presented in an accessible manner. Even the most extreme scenarios do not come off as brutal or vicious, just kinky and erotic. As a consequence, this collection of femdom stories is unique in that it embodies sensibilities that will satisfy sophisticated aficionados and neophytes alike.
I give Under Her Thumb: Erotic Stories of Female Domination two thumbs up! Sep 03, MaleReader rated it liked it Shelves: Like every other collections of short stories that are written by different authors, there are a mix of good and not-so-good stories. I'd guess it's because they're trying to reach the widest possible range of readers.
I thought that most of the stories were tame, depicting safe and consensual acts of bdsm. Not that it's wrong by itself, but I like my erotica to be wilder, even shocking at times with dubious consent. They've been mostly written, with a few exceptions, by women authors for women Like every other collections of short stories that are written by different authors, there are a mix of good and not-so-good stories.
They've been mostly written, with a few exceptions, by women authors for women readers. If you are starting off with kink and want introductory stories then this could be just perfect for you. View all 3 comments. Jul 22, Jessica rated it liked it Shelves: A quick read filled with various femdom stories. Oct 26, Virina Winter rated it it was amazing Shelves: Short enough stories to read in bed or on your way to work, if you dare.
Very imaginative and thoughtful. Apr 01, Padhana rated it liked it. A decent mix of stories. There were a few that raised a few red flags around consent, even considering these are supposed to be fantasies. Overall, though, I enjoyed it. Lori Perkins rated it it was amazing Apr 16, Tri Dools rated it it was amazing Oct 26, Bruce rated it really liked it Mar 13, Dawna Mae Wilson rated it it was amazing Apr 08, Ally rated it it was ok Jan 08, Mandy Stadtmiller rated it it was amazing Nov 14, He would begin to pant in his desire for me.
Then I would giggle. My flesh, my flesh for fantasy. Will you be waiting for him and call him when you are ready to see him? Will he come to you dressed? Or will he be nude and awaiting your call? If you are to make an entrance, will he be dressed or nude when you arrive? If he is dressed, how will you have him undress? Will he do a nice little striptease of his own design or will you order him out of each garment in a particular order?
Will you order him in a firm yet soft voice or will you be the drill sargeant or the warden or the cop? Think about it before your first adventure because one of these openers may be the first com- mand you give him. Be sure you have his collar or scrap of lace as his symbol of submission on hand and also whatever you have chosen for yourself as your symbol of authority. And since he is undressed, may I suggest an inspection? Many men and women, too! My favorite acceptance ritual was to have him enter my presence naked then stand three or four feet in front of me in Position Two, the inspec- tion stance.
Resuming my place on the throne, I would signal my acceptance of him by ordering him to his knees. Then, 1 would bring out the dog collar or ceremonial scrap of lace to bind him or maybe even the leather wrist restraints that had been discussed earlier. When 1 used this technique to establish my authority, 1 made him kiss the object, be it the lace or collar or whatever else, before I put it on him. The kiss was the sign of his submission, his agreement to what we were about to do.
We both found it to be very erotic. If 1 had a whip or crop that 1 planned to use on him, I would press it to his lips for the same homage before I began. I highly recommend that Position One be the first thing you teach him. If you are at a loss of how to begin, it will give you something to do.
Teaching him this will firmly establish your authority over him and bolster your confidence. If you had fun teaching him Position One, move on to Position Two. This is the one he stood in for inspection but now is your chance to cement your control over him. Correct him as stands there, hands behind his head.
Are his arms in the correct position? Is his chest puffed out, his belly tucked in? Feet eighteen inches apart, eyes down? The Rules Imagine that.
Rules, and he must learn them. What are the Rules? Everyone is free to have different rules, suited to their special relation- ship, but rules 1 and 2 remain constant. My rules are quite simple: I always make the rules. It is my prerogative to change the rules at any time without notice to the male. The male is to remain silent at all times unless spoken to.
The male may not look upon me or touch me without my permission. The male must execute, cheerfully and to the best of his ability, all tasks assigned to him by me. If the male is unable to figure out the rules, it is due to some failing or misunderstanding on his part, not mine. Now he knows the rules and positions one, two, and three. How do you know if he is having an equally great time? Well, look at him! Does he have an erection? Is there precum there? Nice and big and hard. Right now I am in the mood for some serious foot worship. I want to feel long, slow paint- brush licks over my insteps.
We will be reviewing positions for grace and accuracy and each misstep will be severely pun- ished. Perhaps you would like to try something a little more physical, a lit- tle more hands-on than inspections, positions, and rules. Some light bondage would be fun now if he is into it. Foot worship is also good for beginners, as is dog training. Or maybe that beating from the Disci- pline chapter that you have been practicing for so long would make a good finale.
Cautions are included where needed, but I must remind you of this: You should be expert with all the props you intend to use on him Practice! You have to be keeping an eye on the clock and keeping him occupied at the same time. This is done slowly and gen- tly — do not thrust him abruptly back into reality.
A good way to do this 36 flic Art ot Sensual female Dominance is to tell him you are pleased with him and as a reward you will allow him to do whatever you deem or have agreed an appropriate reward to be. If his reward is to happen right then and there, after he has been rewarded remove his collar with the same ceremony you used to put it on him. If you want, you can move from the living room, or wherever you happen to be playing, to the bedroom; if you are already in the bed- room, a move to the bed might be just the thing.
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How is he feeling right now? What he needs now' is cuddling, snug- gling, nesting, spooning, or some other physical closeness and sign of protection to strengthen the budding emotional bond between you. He also needs verbal support. Talk about your play. Now what about you? How will you feel? If all w r ent well, you will be feeling elated, powerful, beautiful, and maybe even a little vulner- able. This is heady stuff you are playing with here, make no mistake. This may be the first time in your life an adult ever totally and completely surrendered control of their body to you for your pleasure and you feel a little lost with this new power.
Top or bottom, people are fragile, so be careful and caring of the soul who is your part- ner. You planned the scene, readied yourself and your equipment, established your authority and accepted his surrender. Entering the DOorld ol Dominance and Submission 37 inspected him, taught him slave positions, educated him to your rules, perhaps had a more hands-on experience like bondage or discipline, then rewarded him for his good service.
An entire playtime passed just like that! Maybe you could have played for another half an hour. As you gain more experience and communication grows between you and your partner, you can plan to play for longer periods of time. Life is short, why deprive yourself and your man of a little extra loving? Bondage S omeone once asked me when the excitement starts for a bondage enthusiast. I have found bondage enthusiasts where I least expected them, in the most unlikely places, with a variety of faces from each part of the population the world has to offer.
I have been with bondage fans who have gone under so deeply as to be almost unaware of my presence in the room. A member of the Perverati, layered in latex, climbs into a black leather body bag and allows himself to be zipped in. Then he sits qui- etly, or helpfully rolls around to aid the mistress as she ties rope after rope around the body bag. A hood with tiny nose holes and little tiny goggles at the eyes covers his entire head. While the mistress sits impassively on the sofa, the man thrashes around on the carpeted floor, struggling mightily against his restraints.
He heaves and thrusts his body to and fro, little grunts escaping from under his hood. The minus- 38 39 Bond age cule goggles have completely steamed over from his exertions, render- ing him blind. Your first bondage scenes are not going to reach this level of inten- sity but for many, such scenes are not unusual. The appeal of bondage lies in the isolation of the act itself. He alone is bound, with his con- sent, into helplessness. Consent is a very important part of this.
Having given his consent is a powerful stimulant for him. After being isolated by bondage, surrendenng control is easier for him because he is so obvi- ously no longer in control. The romance of ropes is their sensuality on the skin, the slithery feel of them, and even the little squishy-squeaky noise they make. Bondage is an exercise in helplessness; an exciting shedding of responsibility occurs once the ropes are in place. It allows the bondee to enter a sep- arate space, isolated yet protected by the ropes. While in bondage, mind and thought processes can stop completely and one can luxunate in the feel of the ropes on the skin.
Freed from the responsibilities of the body, the mind can lake new lights of fantasy. Bondage is not only ropes; it is also handcuffs, Saran Wrap one of those things everyone has in their kitchen ankle shackles, velvet rib- bons, stockings, leather body bags, arm restraints, waist chain and hand- cuff ensembles, suspension machines, fur-lined ankle cuffs, lace shoelaces, spreader bars, and a vast unnameable variety of objects that the handier bondage enthusiasts can, and often do, make themselves. Perhaps even spray paint it a glossy black to give it a sleek, shiny and menacing look.
It will make an admirable bondage chair and no one will be the wiser when your guests see it out in your living room. The Fetterati and Perverati know how to relax into bondage, making the feel of the ropes quite deli- cious and nurturing. These people sit there in bondage as happy and 40 Tlie Art of Sensual female Oomtnance quiet as clams. Others, like my latex-clad friend, love to struggle might- ily against their restraints. For yet others, a Houdiniesque escape from bondage is what thrills them. Mental Bondage Bondage is an exercise in helplessness and sometimes equipment is not necessary.
You can put, or order, your partner into a certain position and command him to stay in it. Mental bondage is different from training positions in that training positions are assumed on command for different purposes: In mental bondage, the submissive is taught to assume a position and stay there as a humbling or learning experience. The variation on Position Five, the kneeling inspection, is an excellent position for mental bondage. The position should be challenging to hold and contain some aspect of humiliation, as in Position Five.
As he trains himself to take and hold this position, you could give him a litany to repeat to himself or direct him to think about past episodes as your slave. Then, direct him to hold the position for anywhere from five min- utes to an hour. Holding this position will put him in the right frame of mind for further adventures. Safety Factors Bondage is lots of fun, but you should not enter it without knowing its dangers. As the dominant partner, you are responsible for his well-being and there are things you must watch out for and be careful of while playing at bondage.
Even if you and your partner never progress beyond light bondage, you must be aware of what is happening to him while you have him tied up. A general rule of thumb when playing at bondage: Also, people with low blood pressure some- times have problems with bondage, especially if their arms are over their head, behind their back, or they are immobilized for long periods of time. To a person with low blood pressure or heart problems, twenty minutes could be a long time.
Check his hands and his feet to make sure you have not cut off his circulation. If you have, they will be cold and maybe even a little blue. If this happens, release him immediately and massage the affected area until it warms up. Having him shake his hands around while they are at his sides and then over his head will help bring the circulation back. Stamping his feet will help if they are affected, too. What I do to make sure the ropes are not too tight is to slip two of my fingers between the ropes and his flesh. If my fingers fit comfortably, his circulation does not suffer. Also, if you are tying his hands over his head or tying him to something, it helps to give him something to hold on to.
This could be just an extra bit of rope or a clip hook he can wrap his hands around. Suspension is exciting but has a unique set of cautions, so I would advise you to avoid it at this time. The scissors will release him speedily and safely and give you an opportunity to discuss what the problem was. There is another thing I must caution you about while he is in bondage. Do not, under any circumstances, put him in bondage and leave the house. You can leave the room for a short time; many find this to be very exciting, especially when they are blindfolded as well.
Especially you if he tends to get in your hair! I will caution you to stay away from slipknots, especially if your slave is a straggler. A slipknot will tighten when pulled, cutting off his circulation, possibly causing him harm. Some people fear being tied spread-eagle to anything. It is sexy to think of someone restrained in this way, all stretched out, their body vulnerable to whatever tickles the fancy and unable to do anything about it. But 1 have encountered many with this fear so it is always wise to ask first.
Maybe having one hand or one foot free would solve the problem. Do not lose them! It even happened in my own building — and not to me! The doorman was playing with the sawed up remains right there at the front desk, laughing to himself about it. Types of Rope Cotton ropes and nylon ropes each have their good points and the choice is up to you. Your local hardware store will have both types so go feel them and decide for yourself.
Nylon ropes tend to slip. The most important thing is softness. I would suggest a variety of pieces each eight to fifteen feet long. This has proven to be a manageable length for me. Or fussing to unravel a curly mess. The rope, whether it is cotton or nylon, should be about as thick as your ladylike finger three-eighths of an inch for regular bondage. Thin- ner ones would be necessary for genital cock and ball bondage if you would like to experiment with that.
For practicing, the usual array of appropriately shaped fruit can be purchased at the vendor of your choice. If your ropes are nylon, 1 suggest finishing out the ends with a hot knife blade or passing a match or lighter over them to keep them from unraveling. Make sure there are no stray fibers or sharp points when you are through. If your ropes are cotton, you may want to dip the ends in wax to prevent unraveling. If you are lucky enough to live in a maritime community, or in a city where there are good marine outfitters, check 43 Bondage out the black nylon boat ropes they sell.
Or, order them in fifty- or one- hundred-foot lengths from the Leather Harvest in Connecticut, listed in the shopping guide. These are by far the sexiest ropes I have ever seen. Light Bondage This is the type of bondage I would recommend for the budding dom- inant. Easy to tie, non- slipping but still allowing him some mobility to keep his circulation going, this restraint will become a favorite of yours, too. Tie a hard thumb knot at each end then tie an open thumb knot enough inches up from the end of the rope to accommodate the circumference of his wrist.
For instance, if his wrist is eight inches around, the open knot should be a little more than eight inches from the hard knot at the end see Illus. This knot can also be used to tie him to the bed. Attach one end to the bed frame or post and the other to his wrist or ankle. The square knot is one that any scarf-wearing lady is familiar with: Fold the rope in half and place the end in your left hand over the right and tie a loop, then right over left and tie another loop. This could also be called a double thumb knot since you are performing the same action twice.
A nice variation on the bow is the one-loop bow. When you make the regular bow, pull the last end all the way through and don't make the second loop. Then, you can pull the end of the looped piece to effect a speedy release. This is also called a safety knot.
Simple wrist bondage is something that every dominant should know. For this you will need a eight- to ten-foot length of rope, folded in half. Have the bondee place his palms together in front of him. The palms- together position will ensure that his circulation is not cut off because 45 Illus. Now wrap it around his wrists twice. Now, cross the loose ends over each other and pass one over the top of his wrists and the other beneath them.
Then tie the remaining loose ends into a square knot. This technique can also be used for crossed-ankle bondage. Attach the free end to the doorknob and tie. Then close the door. To become adept at your bondage ties, use your own ankles and legs to experiment on and Practice! Bring him into the bedroom, and order him to the bed or floor. Then, using the simple wrist bondage method, bind his wrists behind his back and his ankles together.
Feel free to add earplugs, leave him there, and go off to do your manicure. All bound and sightless, his mind will do the work for you while you do your nails. Check on him every five to fifteen minutes, varying the amount between each check, of course, and let him know you are doing it. Say something to him or touch him to let him know you are watching over him and continue with your afternoon.
Bring it out and spruce it up — ladies, this is your new bondage chair! For this piece of work, you will need two lengths of rope, each twelve to fifteen feet. Then, you can choose between the hands-behind-the- head version or the hands-bound-to-arms version. Sit him in the chair, feet on either side of the front legs. Have him place his palms together in front of his chest then execute the simple wrist bondage illustrated pre- viously, up until the point where you tie it off. Now pull his hands behind his head and straighten out the remaining rope. Take one end in each hand and, enclosing the chair back in your ropes, pull them around front and crisscross them on his chest.
Leave enough play for him to move his hands slightly. Now bring them around to the back of the chair. Repeat until his upper body is secured to the wooden back of the chair. You will probably only do this two to four times before the rope is used up. On to the second piece of rope. This will secure his legs to the legs of the chair. His legs are on either side of the chair legs.
Pull the rope under the seat of the chair and center it. Then loop it up through the wooden piles holding the chair arm up. Now twine it down his legs until you reach his ankles. Then put in a Claudia knot and tie his ankles and the chair leg in it. In the hands-bound-to-arms version, he rests his arms on the arms of the chair. You begin by centering the rope behind his back, includ- ing the chair and especially the upright wooden post.
Pull the rope around to his chest and crisscross in front. Then pull it around to the back and repeat one or two more times. Now take one end of the rope and snake it around and around his arm, including the chair arm in the wrapping. Tie it off at each wrist with the Claudia knot. Step two, with the second piece of rope, remains the same. For CBT you will need thinner rope, rope ihat is quarter of an inch thick, and six to eight feet long.
For all cock bondage, a hard-on is absolutely essential. Take your rope and lie it up against his shaft on the outside of his body, leaving about a six-inch piece hanging free at the bottom. When the rope is up to the bottom of the flared ridge of his head, scientifically known as the pre- puce, begin to wrap it down and around his shaft. Continue to wrap him in the rope until you reach the base Illus.
You should still have some inches of rope left over. This you can tie to the end you left free before and hold the entire arrangement in Illus. When you want to unwrap him, untie the bottom and pull the long end of the rope, which is twined down his shaft. If you have done it right, his cock should do a crazy dance that amuses you and feels good to him, making his first experience with genital bondage a success. Another rope trick you may want to experiment with is a neat little number that encompasses his sac as well as his cock.
In this instance, the rope should be centered under his sac as the starting point. After you have looped the rope evenly.. Then tie the excess rope off in a bow. Essential- ly, they are two long ribbons with cloth cuffs on each end made of thick- er, folded ribbon. The cuffs close with Velcro. Spreader Bar One of the first things 1 made for myself when 1 was just starting out was a spreader bar. In the Preface there is a description of how to make your own spreader bar with things purchased from a hardware store.
Try spray painting it glossy black to give it a professional touch. Then run the rope through the eye bolts and around his ankles. Or you can get two double-sided clip hooks and clip his ankle restraints to the eye bolts instead of tying him. Satan Wrap Another bondage item that tickles my fancy is Saran Wrap. Yes, Saran Wrap, just like you have in the kitchen. If you want him to stand when you wrap him, his legs will need to be about eighteen inches apart so he can keep his balance.
Have him hold his hands at his sides. Starting at his shoulders, wrap the saran wrap around him a couple of times in the same place to anchor it. Then wrap it in circles around him until you reach the top of his legs. Now, you have a choice: You can wrap each leg separately or together. When you wrap him, start at his shoul- ders and work your way down to his feet.
Then when you free him from the wrapping, cut his feet loose first so he can keep his balance. Alternatively, wrapping him to a chair or to an X-frame, if you are lucky enough to have one, eliminates a potentially dangerous fall if he does lose his balance. Wrapping him to a chair can be very sexy and the only difference is that now the chair can be included in the wrapping. Or, try wrapping him standing up with a chair behind him and then sit- ting him in it prewrapped. After you have made a mummy of him, you can use your scissors to cut away the saran wrap at his nipples, exposing them for you to play with.
You may also want to free his genitals in the same manner for the same reason. Using a high, hot setting, aim it at your saran-wrapped slave. Be careful not to hold it so close to him that it burns him. The idea is that turning the blower on the saran wrap will shrink it and restrict him even more. An added benefit is how warm he will get inside there, warm, wet, and shckery, adding to the sensation of being bound, not in control of him- self and totally your slave.
You may want to practice this on your arm first so you will know how hot your dryer should be pretty hot and how close to your arm a few inches, depending on your dryer without melting holes in it. Or you can melt away the wrap at his nipples and free them that way. This is not recommended for his genitals, however. To release him from the wrapping, just cut him out with your scissors. Remember, when you wrap him start at the top and finish at the bottom; when you unwrap him, free his feet first so he can keep his balance. Leather Restraints A favorite of mine that is not in the rope category is leather restraints.
This includes simple wrist and ankle cuffs, and an arm restraint that covers just his hands and wrists, or encompasses the entire arm up to the biceps. Full arm restraints feature a zipper on one side and laces on the other. The zipper side should be put towards his body, the lace-up side should face out. The laces can be used to tighten or loosen the restraint. Since his arms are pinned behind his back, his neck and shoulders or circulation may suffer. The zipper is used to free him quickly from it if this happens.
Body Bags And my all-time personal favorite nonrope restraint is a leather body bag. This delicious piece of equipment can accommodate a six-foot-plus man on the inside and hold him safely and firmly immobilized for hours on end. You lay it out on the floor, or table, and have him climb in.
Make sure he puts his arms in the inside pockets when he gels in; this will stop him from playing with himself without your permission. The body bag has two zippers, one starts at the feet and ends at the waist. I imagine it was designed that way so you can torture his genitals without releasing him. A new piece of bondage equipment has hit the market which is a spandex body bag. When bagged, the slave resembles a living ebony sculpture. Every curve and protrusion on his body is visible through the light spandex. And, whereas a leather body bag sells for between twelve and fifteen hundred dollars, a spandex body bag costs less than two hundred.
Besides, a spandex bag is washable and the leather bag is not. Handcuffs One of the most popular bondage items is handcuffs. They are not to be taken lightly or bought cheaply. A good pair should cost at least thirty dollars. Try to buy them at a good fetish shop. Or better yet, a police supply store.
The cheap, cranky ones should be avoided. You know they are cheap just because they are cranky. This is not an area to skimp on if this is your pleasure. They can cut, draw- blood, and jam. You are only playing with him, not interrogating him under duress. So be careful not to push him over backwards onto his hands if they are behind his back or in any other position that would cause his wrists to be cut.
Some of the better quality adult stores, like The Noose in Manhat- tan, sell an interesting little device I have given out as a party favor many times. A wise investment for under ten dollars if you are not good with keys, especially little ones. The officers, gentlemen all, are happy, amused even, to comply!
And the story is usually a comedy, not a drama. In the end, the hero saves the day in his girl-rags then gives them up and resumes his male persona. If only real life were so pleasant. In my experience, and in my con- versations about cross-dressing with women not into the scene but open-minded and accepting in other ways, 1 came to a surprising real- ization. The opinions on cross-dressing were almost evenly divided. One half of the women had positive reactions, the other half were pretty much against it.
One unfortunate man told me a story that broke my heart. He was a handsome man in a blond sort of way and dressed up beautifully as a woman.
Since he seemed to know a little bit about makeup and hair- styles, I asked him if he had done this before. To his delight, she accepted his fetish and even went so far as to shop with him for his finery. She would help him dress and apply his make- up and then they would play in the house.
She confessed that at first she found it fun and kinky to have a cross-dressing hus- band but after some time had passed, she became unable to separate his male persona from his cross-dressing side. She felt like she was in bed with another woman and that turned her off. Turned her off to the point that she felt divorce was necessary. Her feeling was now that she knew he loved to dress, and having already done it with her many times, he would never be happy not being able to dress around her again. Then again, it might not.
You can answer for yourself. His response will be more difficult to predict unless he has given you some sign subconsciously. Speak to him about dressing him up before you do it. So try something nonthreatening and see how he reacts to it. Although he had never expressed any interest in cross-dressing, I told him he w'as to wear them as a symbol of his slavery rather than his usual dog collar. I made donning the gar- ments a ceremonious lesson, much like the ritual of placing the dog col- lar around his neck. Instead, the panties and hose were to signify ihe commencement of our games.
If cross-dressing is an essential part of your fantasy, but not his, you may have to romanticize it a bit for him. Even if all he agrees to at first is a little Cross-Dressing 55 mascara for his long, luscious lashes the kind few of us seem to have! Tell him you always wanted to have a sister if you are an only child or only daughter.
If she knew of it before they were married, I feel their chances are better for mutual understanding. It is the rare woman who can live with a man who not only borrows her clothes but also wears them around the house. The Total Beauty Session I call it the total beauty session because the man who wants this type of session only desires to be dressed and made up, not in combination with any other fetish.
This man is a heterosexual male, often married, who likes to dress but has no desire to physically become a woman. He enjoys it enormously except for his occasional guilt pangs about his wife. This genre of cross-dressing is frequently combined with a desire to be treated like a girlfriend, or sister. There is no verbal humiliation, or bondage, or servitude. Popular requests are to be taught how to walk in heels, sit like a woman, cross her legs properly, and how to apply lipstick.
This, of course, depends very much on her latent dancing abilities. Interestingly, some unusual women are able to have long-term rela- tionships with men who cross-dress. And stranger still, there are many 56 Tke Art of Sensual Female D ominance straight, heterosexual men who are able, on a surprisingly regular basis, to meet women who can accept his fantasy and enjoy it as well. Forced Feminization Some slaves love forced feminization. One reason might simply be that it is your desire to dress him.
Or you could dress him up as punishment for some infraction of your rules. Dressing him is an ideal punishment for voyeurism. At the end of this chapter, I will give you a few tips on making up his face that 1 have learned from my cross-dressing friends. Once you have determined that cross-dressing can be on your menu of dominant manifestations, you will find yourself in the lucky position of being able to dish out some mild verbal humiliation. Making a man eat cum is also a good way to make him submit, he can start with his own cum and eventually be forced to lick up other mens cum, gross but it works.
How far to you want to take a man is up to the woman but some go whole hog and create a willing cuckold who encourages his wife. My wife likes being clothed and me naked. While talking over different issues she gets me big. During our conversation my pre cum starts to flow. As it builds she puts it on her finger and then moves it to my mouth for me to eat.
After a lot of time, and pre cum, she builds me to near orgasm. Then stops over and over again. Sometime she stops and walks away. If i orgasm she makes me clean it up using her finger. Im Goddess Magda 25y old from Europe Poland. I am looking for young slaves that are interested in doing picture assignments and possible exposure online. I want him to be willing to do each and every thing I say. I he does well, he will be rewarded. If not, he will be punished. Describe yourself and what you are looking for, guys with a picture will receive an answer first.
This is sooo exciting!!! I think my husband might be a sub, he likes for me to suprise him. I honestly have not done anything crazy, but i do think im a dominating type. I remember when we broke up while dating, we lived together and then I left him literally on the street cuz he was acting funny with his ex, we had an apt together while he was away working after confirming his shit I decided to pick everything up move , give his clothes to a neighbor and give the apt keys back, while talking to him for 3 days like nothing had happen.
A few weeks later we got back together, but every time I remember the shit he talked with his ex made my blood boil and wherever I was I would leave his ass right there…he would still follow me. I think I just actually realize what was going on. And it makes sense, till me he had never had anyone who fighted him that hard, to leave him whenever, to ignore him…. Thank you so much. My husband and I are at the beginning stages of exploring BDSM and your articles are truly helping a lot.
Absolutely love the way you explain things too. I had a wonderful femdom relationship. She would make me wear panties while shopping for clothes and get the shop assistant to come into my changing room with different sizes of trousers while catching me changing. She would amuse herself with me having to sit on a suction dildo while wanking for her…. I would always have to eat my cum afterwards, as it was not meant to be wasted. Licking her and not coming myself was a given.
Once while watching tv, I was getting a bit of a hardon…. I was told to go to the kitchen, get a honey melon and have sex with it in front of her while she kept watching tv. Of course not forgetting to ask for permission, which she casually overheard a couple of times…. Some of this stuff is quite hot, but one thing on your list stands out as totally unacceptable: This is not OK. Your email address will not be published. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. How to dominate a man with humiliation In the right context, doing your hair can be deeply sexy.
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