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I cannot break myself any long for you, or you. If you can love me for what I am, we shall be happier. If you cannot, I will still seek to deserve that you should.
I will not hide my tastes or aversions. I will so trust that what is deep is holy, that I will do strongly before the sun and moon whatever rejoices me and the heart appoints. If you are noble, I will love you; if you are not I will not hurt you or myself with hypocritical attentions.
The direction I have taken as a result of your site helps me overcome obstacles everyday. Obstacles that I am coming to realize, are created by my thoughts, and consequently my actions. And there is no man who is able to prevent this. But having yet to find a better way, the pleading works for me.
Second Acts That Change Lives: Making a Difference in the World [Mary Beth Sammons] Second Acts That Can Change Lives and millions of other books are. life. Whether you wish to change careers, move to a more desirable part of the country. The Encore Career Handbook: How to Make a Living and a Difference in the Second Making your life significant during the Second Act can really make a . I've been a fan of his ever since I read "Fire Your Boss" (my career bible).
Perhaps one day the world will come to understand its addiction to narrative. That just means, simply be. Trusting yourself about what is, and not putting any neuroticisms onto the table. Very well said — indeed the whole notion of time is a fiction we create to create some semblance of understanding to string together events. Almost like how the guy in Memento uses tattoos. America is the home of second acts. If we ignore it long enough, maybe the real world will just up and disappear.
A first act is beauty, glamour, and style; second acts are realistic, honest, and cold. His quote has nothing to do with driving yourself toward a happy ending.
We were somewhere in North Africa when we heard a dull distant crash which echoed to the farthest wastes of the desert. Inevitably, a passing monkey smells or sees the banana and reaches in to pull it out — and the trap is sprung. Once he makes a fist or tries to grab something and pull it out, the opening is too small for his closed fist to pass through. So the monkey pulls, thrashes and struggles… to no avail. Sometimes for hours, sometimes for days, but he never lets go of the banana. Eventually the hunters come back to check on their trap and collect the exhausted monkey.
You see, there is nothing physically holding the monkey there. He is just not willing to let go of the banana and escape with his life. I only use it to bring up the next point.
Just like the monkey holds onto the banana, we also hold onto definitions, judgements, job titles and place far too much value on what others think of us. At a deep, internal level. Maybe that you work for an oil and gas company, or an investment firm, or a startup? It sounded impressive and looked good on a business card.
Unfortunately, Canada seems to be moving more in that direction as well. Still, committing yourself to making your aspirations a reality can be tremendously empowering. Steve Jobs is often credited with the biggest second act in business history, with his triumphant return to Apple after being ousted from the company. And thanks for the inspiration. Perhaps a high school teacher, a mother of three, writes about how she has embarked on painting wildlife scenes, and several of her pieces were just exhibited in a local gallery. I will not hide my tastes or aversions. He is just not willing to let go of the banana and escape with his life.
A part in the machine that can be replaced, forgotten, or discontinued. What am I , if not an account manager? We would have to be something more than a job title. Your work , on the other hand, is a very different place. It comes from a different place. I paint, I fix and ride motorcycles, I work with leather, I host a podcast, I speak, I study Zen, I teach, I design courses… how do you say all that in a cohesive answer?
There is so much more to you then your job title. Once you realize that, everything from that point forward changes. The way you look at the world is different. The conversations you have are more meaningful.
So, what must happen to make someone start thinking this way? About their second act. About their contribution and their legacy. Posted on March 1, Updated on February 18, A recent study from Merrill Lynch determined that nearly three out of five retirees will launch a new work chapter after they retire from primary careers. But, not all boomers who want to work after retirement share the same reasons or priorities around work.
This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Posted on March 12, Updated on March 15, Just when you think you had life figured out, you wake up to discover that the map of life that has guided you no longer leads you anyplace that you care to go. While not much else may be clear, one thing is certain: To the contrary, you are approaching the path that leads to a discovery—of own your true self.
Life in the second half is perplexing. It presents everyone, no matter their profession, income, or gender, with the most simple, yet complex question of their lives: Who am I meant to be? It is said that the challenge of our early years is to establish an identity that is based on skills, competencies and ego-boosting accomplishments.
That all tends to change as we enter into the second half of life and begin to come to grips with our own mortality. Recognizing that you no longer have all the time in the world is sobering.