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Talk about Infertility and Adoption Creating a Family, a non-profit providing education and resources for Infertility and Adoption http: This is a really great post. I get a bit of satisfaction from making people feel crappy for being nosy. Lilly Aug 26, Andra Pike Oct 03, Very insightful and so, so true! Mikie Mar 02, I feel for everyone going through IVF!
My wife and I met at age We decided to work on careers and money first. We decided to get married over We decided to try for kids a year after we got married. Bu then we were together for 7 plus years. Had a nice house, cars, and a stable income.
We traveled and got to spend a lot of money on things we wanted. Were were proud of this as we watched late teens and early 20s women with kids waiting for the bus or people we knew who husband or Bf left for good. After one year of trying we found out we both had problems. It took us 3 years of ivf to get pregnant with our 2 sons. But they only made it to 5 months. I got to hold them alive for 1 hour before they passed away. We got pregnant again with twins and they made it all the way! It was a long 5 years of trying and it made our marriage very strong. It took longer for us. But i promiced myself growing up i would not be like my dad who worked all the time just to provide and never did things one on one.
Now I can spend all my time with my kids and have a great life. All of you people trying do not give up.
Its us who want kids. It sucks to see people have kids who are poor and do not give a crap. Its bad enough to be asked all of the time when are u going to have kids! Lesley-Anne Jul 18, You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Twitter account. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Notify me of new posts via email. Create a free website or blog at WordPress. Every BFN I have had causes me to get depressed and I can usually get out of by just thinking positive but it gets harder and harder Fear…I have the fear that what if we cant get pregnant…what do I do then?
I feel like I am letting my husband down…my husband is wonderful and loves kids…what if I cant give that to him…I know he says we would adopt but I wonder if deep down he would feel sad not to have his own biological children Regret…should we have tried earlier? I want my life back!!! Resent…my friend is having a baby this week …she told me years ago that she really didnt want to have kids and now she is having one before I am…I dont want to resent anyone for being able to conceive but its hard since I feel like everyone around me is having a baby I hate when people ask me when we plan on having kids…FUCK!!!
Maybe I had twins in there as my numbers were strong. So, we decided to tell a few more people. It was finally our time. We could start to get excited because we were going to be a family. After I had my bloods done, I had a large bleed with clots. As you can imagine I sat on the toilet and cried. All I could feel were clots passing. Looking down seeing bright red, my heart sank.
How can I go from that morning having such a good reading to that afternoon sitting in a pool of blood? I phoned my specialist straight away. I was told to lay down, insert more waxy pessaries and take it easy and come for bloods again the next day. We were still doing ok but each trip to the toilet I dreaded. I was so scared I would look down and have blood staring at me. The next day, I suddenly felt an urge to go to the toilet which was no different as I had been going nearly every hour.
Infertility Sucks. By Samantha Delmege. One thing I find with IVF is that you are always waiting—for results, for your period to start, to see if it's worked. Infertility Sucks. likes · 27 talking about this. Infertile Myrtle and her friends. .
I was horrified— I had a few drops of blood running down my leg and when I sat down I passed more large clots. My stomach was starting to cramp at this point. I just kept sitting there passing more clots. I just had to let my body do its job. Let nature takes its course. The lovely doctor sat with Max and I and explained I was miscarrying. This I will find out over the next couple of days.
So back to square one we are. We can stop dreaming about nurseries and looking at baby items for now as our journey with IVF is to continue. My specialist again is amazing. Replying to me straight away, answering when I call him, just being there for me as a friend and a specialist.
He is a man who is at the top of his game and shows so much compassion towards all his patients. He never gives up on us yet is brutally honest if he believes you are wasting your time.
For us he believes the journey is not over. I am nearly there. I am so close to my dream yet I feel so far away. I will fight on.
But running like a thread through everything that was going right was a horrible absence. We decided to get married over Group 11 Created with Sketch. Wright Eva September 24, at 3: If you having similar problem, Contact him now drujiagbeherbalhome gmail. Like Melissa said above, I have been seeing lots of posts like this in the blog world lately which is great, for bringing up the conversation , but it makes me nervous. We've had every test under the sun, everything else is considered normal.
My own strength has shocked me. How do you grieve properly? No one quite understands. Max and I will find the strength to eventually go another round.
We both want this so bad. We will again put our life on hold to achieve what we both yearn for. I will again have to go through another cycle of injections, hormones, more weight gain, another round of egg pick ups, more transfers, in the hope that cycle number four will be our lucky cycle. I will never give up on my journey as hard as it is and as cruel as it is.
How do I get started? Why am I not falling pregnant?