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Did she do an awesome job on her speech in history? Let her know, and be genuine. Highlight some parts that you enjoyed or tell her about an article you read on the topic. Hide in plain sight. Sometimes, you meet and upon spending a little time with a girl, realize you have very strong feelings for her that you won't be able to hide.
Just keep it light and start hitting on her immediately. If you make a little joke of it and say things like, "She's crazy about me," or "Of course I'm staring at you, you're the girl of my dreams. Watch for her reaction and adjust. Ask her out on a friendly date so you can see how much you guys really have in common.
And if she is conceited then you will be grateful you didn't ask her out on a real date. Be very cautious to only do the "friendly date" once or twice.
If you do it too much, she'll start to look at your relationship as friendship, and this can be a difficult perception to reverse. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Already answered Not a question Bad question Other. Tips Hygiene is important. Looking nice makes you feel nice. Get to know her friends. If her friends don't like you, she probably won't be as open to spending time with you. Don't be mean to them or pull their hair--there are other ways to get to know a girl!
Be in their group when it's time for a class presentation and let your personality shine. Don't be tempted to try to be friends first and ease into a relationship later. Although people sometimes go from friendship to romance, it's a lot more difficult to change the context of the relationship after the fact.
This is called "the friend zone" and it is not a place you want to be if you have feelings for her.
Want to play a fun game and learn about wikiHow? Don't pretend to be jerk so that you can impress her. Only through conversation can take it to the next level ex. Highlight some parts that you enjoyed or tell her about an article you read on the topic. Show interest in her personality. By continuing to use our site, you agree to our cookie policy.
It's ok to start slowly, just maintain a flirtatious attitude so your intent remains clear. If she doesn't respond well to flirtatiousness, going the "friends first" route is an option you can consider some girls are very shy , but know that it is a gamble, and that steering things back to romance later will likely be awkward and unsuccessful. This can make attractive women suspicious of just about any guy.
Make sure you are interested in who this woman really is her hopes, dreams, fears, ambitions, quirks, oddities, favorite things, etc.
If you're not interested in that, you're not after her for the right reasons. This really is the most important step. Besides, people who act like themselves even the goofy ones are sexy. If a woman doesn't like who you are once she gets to know you, she isn't worth your time.
Furthermore, if you have to change who you are to attract or keep a woman, you are cheating both yourself and her. Take care of yourself. Clean up after yourself, stay in shape, do your laundry, clip your toenails, and learn to cook a meal or two.
Don't hesitate to approach an attractive woman. Beautiful women attract arrogant suitors like flies, which tends to scare away all the nice ones. Work up the nerve to approach her and she might just find you a breath of fresh air. There are, however, certain things to keep in mind: Avoid approaching a woman in a bar, or club. These women aren't looking to be wooed by a fast car, cheap haircut, and lame lines; they usually have their guard up and don't want to be bothered. Give yourself any social edges possible. This is the biggest game-killer ever. Pages can be written on this but, as a rule of thumb, if you're frustrated, you're probably trying too hard; if she's frustrated, you're definitely trying too hard.
A lot of guys treat women like jerks -- and, frankly, sometimes it works. If you want someone happy and well-adjusted, behave accordingly. Don't try cheap tricks or cheesy lines. Sparks only fly in the spur of the moment, so start with a comment, joke, or witty interaction based on the situation. If you have to lie to get something, it's not for you and never was. Women are no exception to the human race, as they appreciate honesty above all. Perhaps suggest going for a walk together. If you have a dog, ask her if she'd like to join you exercising your dog sometime, or maybe going to the mall.
Girls like to feel pretty, so make sure to compliment her.
If it's her shirt, or her amazing eyes, it will make her feel better about herself! Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Already answered Not a question Bad question Other. Tips Pay attention to her body language: If she is facing you and looking you straight in the eyes that means she's probably interested. But if half of her body is turned away or if she is messing on her phone then you are probably boring her, or she is nervous.
When talking to a woman, leave when you're having the best time, not when you don't have anything more to say. This way she'll remember you as the funny and pleasant person she had a nice chat with, not as the guy who she had long awkward silences with.
Never be too shy to say something nice to her in front of her friends. When talking to a woman, try making her come closer by talking quieter than normal. This way she'll come closer to hear you, and when she does that, you know she's interested. Be slightly different than the others in your social circle. If you're a teenager in high-school and everyone is wearing baggy trousers and turned back hats, dressing in normal jeans and shirt will make you different and draw positive attention to you.
Stay in touch with her even if she has a boyfriend, be there for her whenever she feels alone and unwanted. Don't ask "Would you like to go out with me next weekend? You want to come? If she says she has a boyfriend, continue the conversation. That is, don't show you heard her mentioning him at all. Be playful with her; including inside jokes shows that you remember her and are likely to make her laugh.
If a woman does reject you, don't come back to her and keep trying. If she changes her mind she will send you signals to try again.
Make sure to keep an eye for said signals. Or try again later after a while. Be sure to give the girl some space when needed. Realise that people do not like being around people all of the time and that constantly being with her, could possibly deter her from spending time with you. Sometimes it's good to use interesting words when you talk to her.
That will get her more interested in you and your conversations. Instead of saying pretty, say beautiful, or instead of saying her house looks clean, say it looks immaculate. Make friends with her friends don't flirt! Girls always turn to their friends for advice. Catch her eyes as much as possible, she'll love the attention!
Give her a cute little gift like a little bracelet or necklace. That'll make her think you like her. True love is when you truly love someone not for their looks but their personality.