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Flying monkeys is a phrase used in popular psychology mainly in the context of narcissistic abuse. They are people who act on behalf of a narcissist to a third party, usually for an abusive purpose. Flying monkeys are distinct from enablers. Enablers just allow or cover for the narcissist's abuser's own bad behavior. The wicked witch sent them to carry out her attacks. Flying monkeys can be anyone who believes the narcissist's fake persona including the narcissist's spouse, child, friend, sibling or cousin.

According to Atkinson, flying monkeys are usually unwittingly manipulated people who believe the smears about the victim although they may be another narcissist working in tandem. According to Vaknin , proxy abusers can be: It may consist of spying, spreading gossip , threatening, painting the narcissist as the victim victim playing and the target as the perpetrator victim blaming.

Despite this, the narcissist does not hesitate to make flying monkeys his or her scapegoats when and if needed. The flying monkeys may make it seem like the narcissist is not really involved. They are likely to have no idea that they are being used. Multiple flying monkeys are likely to act as a mobbing force against a victim. In divorce conflicts, the children can be used by one party as a weapon against the other party.

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According to Vaknin , proxy abusers can be: It may consist of spying, spreading gossip , threatening, painting the narcissist as the victim victim playing and the target as the perpetrator victim blaming. Despite this, the narcissist does not hesitate to make flying monkeys his or her scapegoats when and if needed. The flying monkeys may make it seem like the narcissist is not really involved. They are likely to have no idea that they are being used. Multiple flying monkeys are likely to act as a mobbing force against a victim. In divorce conflicts, the children can be used by one party as a weapon against the other party.

The social and emotional fabric of our family is destroyed. My oldest is in college. Just like her mother now. My youngest is still in the house and I moved out 2 months ago into an apartment down the street. Trying to protect her and my dogs and be there with a place for my daughter to go.

Filed for divorce but had to back off in the face of extreme escalation. Trying to go to law school and restore my confidence and self esteem…. I am hoping to recover and rescue my daughter. The evil is insidious and relentless. It has been impossible to escape as any attempt results in escalations and physical assaults.

My daughter is malnourished. All the signs were there right up front. She lived with her cousin after being released and was kicked out of her cousins home for stealing s from her checking account. All she does is lie, cheat, steal, harass, insult, blame, attack and then step out of the house like mary poppins. Any attempt to hold her accountable or defend oneself brings emotional and physical hostility.

The worst thing that happened to us was I built a Spanish business for her to teach in and it was a successful cash business and it brought all of her instincts to the surface even more She is capable of murder. She has assaulted me in ways that could have caused extreme injury or death many times. It has been groundhog day every day for 20 years….

It took me forever to believe this kind of insidious evil was possible. I am barely holding on to my identity, my sanity, and my emotional strength. I am 49 years old, blind, living alone, and have had my SS benefits extorted from me for 9 years. It is clear that she is very close to hitting a wall and blowing up.

Something bad is going to happen. Given time, sooner than later, she will be detained or arrested for the Nth time and her luck is going to run out. In the meantime, my daughter and i are talking about her living with my sister while I attend law school close by…. She is hostile to her role as a mother and wife…hates taking care of her family…resents everything about it. Cooking and cleaning are always accompanied by ongoing rants, hysterics and the harassment of all concerned. My daughter wants to go and we might be able to get away and move home where my family is.

Where I can build a life for myself and my kids, where my daughter can live surrounded by a large loving family, and where I can become whole again.

I have been meet with lots of unfair treatment to include the use of past sympaties to envoke saddness in me, thus manipulating my feelings. Almost everythng I hear is a lie, she is very quick to lie — even if it makes no sense to. She promises me things and almost always fails at the task, whether it be a simple call back or visit to a cafe.

She expects me to accept her yet she cant tell the truth to save her life, often lies followed by more lies to the point she feels the need to prove to me the truth, and yet the supposed truth is a lie. The funny thing is she lets the truth out an hour after telling me a lie but without realizing it. But not all sociopaths are serial killers. They do take great pleasure in killing people emotionally though. They are also aware of the differences between right and wrong…they just do not care about those differences.

It is not difficult to understand a person who is truly unaware that hurting others in wrong. It is not difficult to forgive a person like that. My situation is complicated. I married when I was young. Eighteen years old and ended up married to a twenty six year old man. To make a long story short, Jerry lied, cheated and was abusive in every way you can think of.

All of the emotional and physical abuse was manageable except he used the one thing I loved against me. He knew that my Faith in God was important to me. He made sure I paid for it by turning me into an evil entity; a Satan. Well, some time went by and my fear and pity of him was growing. I became pregnant and then things seemed to get better until he attempted to push me out of a moving car while I was six months along. Five years with a sociopath and with a child realizing for the first that He not only uses my religion against me but also my child. I decided to take our daughter to a domestic violence shelter.

After this experience, I suffered a great deal of PTSD and depression; a long tough road to recovery and managing a new relationship two years after I left Jerry. My daughter and I went through the legal system and lost with flying colors. Three years of a fighting battle in court. I lived in a trailer getting minimum wage. He lived in a condo and was earning twenty five dollars an hour.

I lost a battle to a known sociopath and he ended up with sole custody; raised my little girl and used her to get at me ever since. She is now nineteen years old and expecting her first child. She is a replica of her Father. She behaves just like him. She is just as abusive.

I see her treating her boyfriend very badly. My husband and I set up boundaries around her in order to protect ourselves. I can say this, I would be better off without her in my life. She is that hurtful. I believe that she is a sociopath just like her father.

What is devastating is that now this sociopath, who happens to be my daughter, will be the mother of my grandchildren. She has already warned me that I will only be able to see them as long as I stay a good person. I am at my wits end! I am dealing with someone who I think has anti-social personality disorder at work. But my problem is that I feel that the ASPD sufferer has manipulated my boss into feeling empathy for her. This person essentially has my boss wrapped around their finger. So when he or she bullies me around and I stand up for myself, my boss comes down on me.

I was fortunate one to run into one. She played soul mate card. Showers all the attention said all the rite things we dated for a year. I le my guard down and trusted her blindly. Gave her all the love and attention but in the end it was cheating lies shameless lies. I left her 4: Common trait she had was no guilt or remorse constant stories n lies Cheating using people and take take take cud not even give simple pleasures Whole relation ship was based on facad n fake lies sex attention n soul mate.

I encountered a sociopath very early in life. She terrorized me into my teen years. She was my step mother, and nobody believed us when we tried to tell them about her. You have to see it for yourself. And you are looking at an empty vessel. My ex-step mother died recently, and not one of her step children went to her before her death, as she requested.

I was friends last year with a girl who was more of a narcissist, she seemed like the most amazing person at first, and then I realized she was constantly lying and if I called her out, she would just gas light me, and always lie her way out of it, turn it around on me, make it seem like there was always something crazy going on in her life and I was just dumping my drama on her, and tell me she couldnt deal with my negative energy in her life, and she made me feel CRAZY!

I actually wondered if I was, because I had previously thought so much of her, and how could someone be THAT different from everything she had shown herself to be at first? It took me a long time to understand what was going on, I felt miserable, and used and confused. Thank you for telling me this! She told me she wanted to tell me before, but that someone had warned her about this girl when she was just starting to hang out with her, and she brushed them off thinking they were just jealous because the narc girl seems like such a wonderful person, how could anyone talk badly about her?

This year, I started dating someone I am convinced is a psychopath. He absolutely love-bombed the shit out of me. He was overboard at the beginning, winning me over, and we somehow had a ton of things in common and he would go out of his way to show me he cared. He gave me a house key the second week I started staying over, and that was one of the less extravagant things he did. And then, he started acting… differently.

It is genetic and runs in families. It is the most debilitating of any mental illness. I plan to write a book one day to maybe help other parents trying to deal with children who are sociopathic. I figured everything out on my own through researching the internet. There is absolutely no support for parents trying to cope with sociopathic children. When I look back the signs were there as early as 4 years old.

I grieved for years as if I lost my children to death. Actually with death you get closure, with this illness there is never closure. I started to attend college recently, and within the first week a seemingly sweet girl wooed me. We were fine for two weeks, but something seemed to change. She began to ignore me in class and over text, and soon it seemed that my care for her was just a game. I had noticed small things before, yet now it looks like all of this points to one thing.

Most likely a sociopath, a cold-hearted, manipulative person, she began to make these rumors about me. Her friends can see that she is just finding a muse in hurting me, but I will not fall for this sick game she wishes too play. She will loose her muse, try to get it back, and it will not work. Because I have realized her disorder, yet she will just prey on vulnerable nice guys such as myself. A woman in my company, recently promoted to upper management. She once made a plan with other staff, for her team to express their issues confidentially.

She then found out, by what they had said when expressing these issues, who had made the comments and victimised them, betraying their trust. She has managed for years by threatening to fire her staff. She says outrageous insulting things to individuals in private. If she finds out something a staff member enjoys she makes changes so they cannot do the thing they enjoy. The list is endless. Her team does not perform and every other team that needs their services knows this. Every person with any spirit or drive has left her team, however upper management values her enough to have promoted her repeatedly.

I am fighting a sociopathic sibling in three lawsuits. He and a younger brother have stolen money from our parents and are using a business the three of us own to support their own personal lifestyle. The younger one used my parents trust in him to talk them into signing documents whereby they were defrauded of millions of dollars. My oldest daughter is a sociopath, why do I say this, she does everything that you have said and more.

She lied her way out of it. She makes up things and says now who is the child molester now? She wants to be in control all and everyone that she comes into contact with. I am her mother and cant stand being any where around her she is using drugs, she has moved around 15 times since the baby has been born, and nothing we can prove. But how can we get that baby away from her, she says that he is her baby, no one helped her get her pregnant.

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Help if there is something we can do please let me know we are about at our wits end. We are trying to protect the child which she plays him as a pawn to get her way. My ex is one and he tried to tell me he was for so many years, by very kindly explaining sociopathy to me! He could always spot another sociopath within seconds. The courts have now kindly given him half custody of my children and he uses this to try to control me and them forever, on my money.

I do believe — this too shall pass. I am going through a divorce from my husband who is a sociopath. He has been abusing me emotionally for years, has had a four plus year affair, neglected our two 4 and 6 year old daughters. Physical abuse of me for which he was arrested. But, now that we are getting divorced and in a trial, he is lying about all of it. He is now saying he wants custody of the children and, crying on the witness stand about how he wanted a family, but I would not forgive him regarding his affair. He makes much more money than I do. I feel I am going to be left with nothing— my girls taken from me, homeless and penniless.

Any ideas of how to deal with him?? I cannot get over how true this information is! I have recently separated from my sociopath and it has been a bumpy ride!

I know that he is not finished with me yet but I keep reading and learning more ways to protect myself and have come to understand how he actually got me to marry him. He has kept my life in a turmoil and I am sure that he will be on my door step the day the order is lifted. I really loved your article. I am a victim of a sociopath in the worst sense.

It is a stunning tudor style home in a historical neighborhood here in Dallas TX. Never did I make a bigger mistake. Within 2 weeks I became a target for my very bored, nightmare next door. They are 2 gay men and one of them became obsessed with the fact that I had purchased a home he thinks is his. At first I thought he was just being nice but then I realized he was beginning to annoy me on purpose with music blaring over the fence every single day stealing my solitude in my garden. I had never experienced sociopathy before so I found myself apologizing to him and just trying to get along while, at the same time, asserting my boundaries and rights as a neighbor.

We live on a zero lot line so his property line is just 5 feet from the windows on the side of my home that faces his home. It was a huge playground to him from which to use as a tool to bully and harass me. He would place unsightly objects directly in front of my Windows for weeks, pretend to be landscaping while at the same time hovering in front of my windows on the property line. To make a VERY long story short, this escalated to heights you would never imagine. I have the recourses to have been able to hire a private investigator for nearly 3 years. We found out he conducts an illegal gay male prostitute business in the back house above his carport.

We found his website where he solicits random internet weirdos to come to his address for erotic massage! I was forced by my investigator to drop our law suit petition that took us 2 years to finally present. My detective quite and I am all lone now with a terribly weary spirit in a home that I have put blood sweat and tears into to make really beautiful. The death of my brother encouraged them to harass me even more. Your article was very comforting to me. I am finally letting go enough to think that maybe I should just sell and finally give up.

I need to start my life over. This horrid human being has ruined my life and there are no words to describe what it feels like to actually be in the shoes of a victim of any sociopath. I had a neighbor like yours. Only he used herbicides and pesticides to destroy my garden and cause me to suffer horrible reactions. He knew that it would harm me because I made the mistake of requesting at a meeting with the HOA to give me notice when the gardener would spray, as I had been hospitalized as a result of a tree being sprayed.

This went on for nearly 7 years, and I had to move. Hospitalized, slandered, property vandalized, virtually nothing the police could do. A few years went by… his friends are back following in his evil footsteps. He committed suicide a year after I moved. I have encountered a sociopath. I was young when I met him.

He was what I would describe as the strong, but silent-type, brooding and mysterious, which of course, only lend to his appeal. For instance, he would startle me-often or get real close to my face. It was wonderful at first. He was so loving and caring and sweet. I thought to myself that I must have died and gone to heaven! It was whirlwind of attention and incredible sex, despite the fact he was not even close to possessing a physique that was grossly overweight.

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After about a two month period is when I noticed a shift. He became decidedly mean and cantankerous. Always putting me down and pointing out my flaws. I started to second guess myself. Was I really that selfish? Was I really so self-centered? I had never heard myself described myself that way.

I had always thought of myself as easygoing and open minded and nonjudgmental. It is what my other friends would say about me, although I know I am not perfect by any means. It was then that I had started to research personality disorders. This is a long story that has continued for almost 10 years now…. It is an experience I wish I could erase from my mind forever but it has also taught me so much about myself. In recent research they are separating the difference between the 2 terms. The distinction I have read is that a psychopath crosses the line into criminal events.

I would like to know your opinion of this. Your description fits him, perfectly! Unfortunately, this person also has a physical disability; he has one arm which is a tool he uses to create pity on himself. I do believe he will repeat his behavior again and again and there is nothing that can be done to prevent it. A poem about female cluster B. But really deep within im just a chicken shit sick little bitch. But thats only a minor glitch as you will see! I am the self made consummate victim I loath myself so all must pay! I lie I cheat and steal with the greatest of ease like a slimy eel.

If you ever see behind my mask of sanity then watch out you should not have done that! Know one is safe not even my son. I would run us into a pole so we could always be together as apposed to see him happy and doing well away from my evil toxic spell what is that not a good Christmas tidings? If I say I give you my love you better hope you wore a glove! I am a cold blooded reptile a chameleon with worst poisons and venom than a snake and when I bite my victims will go into shock and never have suspected it, cause I was sucking their cock the ultimate predator I am!

As miss Jekyll I Hyde and rage like rabbid animal that should be locked in cage Maximum security for all of eternity Its the only thing really safe for the rest of humanity. You really should at all cost refrain from trying To peek inside my brain that will only be the binging of your pain and launch another covert attack behind your back that i have been doing all along, basically since We first met , I mix it with some glee so it makes it hard to see!

Do you believe in monsters? I am vulgar crude rude and vile what else would you expect from satans child. I am a seething fire breathing modern day Jezebel straight out of hell. Have ever seen a three dollar bill? I will threaten you with legions that i do not have! And if i sense you are getting wise and have allies that will listen and advise rest assured I will stir up some shit and sever those ties in a web with plenty of lies i will have got to them long before you with your S.

S call in distress Dint you know a apex predator always separates its prey from the rest of the flock? I do have fears cause over the years my looks have defiantly diminished can I still hunt with only a cunt? I hope its all not finished. Ive wasted my life but have pasted that price on all of you. And when you emerge from the fog ill have you so exhausted and cut down ,shell shocked like a log from all the toxicity.

My greatest fear and need is to hide and not be discovered for then how would i feed if they ever recovered. But i like attention its part of my plea but that draws attention kinda a paradox you will see What can I do but sit in fear when the end draws near this is my big secret not yours Everything is mine and i want to take to my grave and if you have put it all together and have gotten away i will still say good luck finding someone that can love you like and as much as me good lord you could only fucking hope not even tho we are somewhat rare.

NO But you will see rest assured it will not be full of glee the end. This is a really good post. And, explains my ex perfectly. I work with a young lady like this. She was promoted despite the aforementioned characteristics. At first I was the only one that noticed her behavior because I worked the closest to her.

Now others see the sociopathic tendencies but no one in a position of authority. Our team is coping with it in different ways. I have reached out to HR because of the abuse that I have personally endured working with this person but they have minimized my very real accusations and excused her. Everyone in authority is under her spell and convinced she is a prized employee simply experiencing the jealousy of people around her. They have no idea exactly what they have added power to and my last resort is filing a discrimination claim or seeking legal counsel.

I have fought at every point yet I am unsupported by authority. When I interview, shall I ask have you employed any sociopaths that I will need to work with? But to me, it is more valuable to acquire skill and practice with being in control with people like this. This is my vindication! I am in the exact same situation. I would be interested to know how your situation worked out. I am exiting a 16 year marriage with a full-blown sociopath. We have ourselves and our 2 dogs.

We lost the trust with every neighbor, friend, family friend, and family members, with the exception of a few family members thanks to the charm and professional acting skills of a sociopath. All I can do is save money to pay for the attorneys that were never necessary in a normal breakup I live in constant of fear of what his next calculation will be. I searched for answers for years knowing that something was wrong. For anyone else reading this, the big red flag indicator is the deep seeded underlying rage. It will never leave and their rage is with them to stay.

I agree that their cruelty and selfishness eventually catches up with them and they get a bad reputation. I think also when their looks and youth fade their power does as well. In their prime they do the most damage effortlessly. I notice they tend to associate with eachother in packs as well with a few liyal lackies that are just happy to have someone to hang out with and call a friend.

I think the best way to live your life is to build your own family unit. Sociopaths usually are a total failure at that. I encountered one and knew something was wrong. He used people around me to persuade me to let him. I kept pushing him away till it was too late. I trusted him one night and he took the only chance he had and sexually took advantage of me.

I felt as I was his submissive child as I sat there waiting for him to be ready to sexually take advantage of me again. I still tried to stay away from him but felt submissive. It took me 2 months to figure out what had happened. I knew I was not and seemed out professional help. To my shocking surprise my therapist sucked and I still felt it was me.

I could finally work toward healing after I cried for an hour uncontroablly I called him and told hm what I thought of him and I knew what he was. He denied it and teased me and tried to intrigue me. He also threatened me with killing me if I said anything. I guess to check if I would tell anyone about him. I stay low key and my life is so private now. Life after a sociopath is never and will never be the same again.

I find it hard to smile sometimes as to display vulnerability. But he left me with a lifetime of fear. May God bless all who are barely ready and researching sociopaths. My journey has all been within the past months and I pray I shall never encounter one again. If I do I am better equipped to recognize the signs and trust my gut and nothing anyone else has to say. I bought the book you referenced above because I just learned I married a sociopath. We were not even married 2 months before it came out that he was living a double life. He had secrets a plenty and I had been manipulated into carrying on a relationship with this person.

He had even convinced family members to keep his secrets. As I was reading this book, as quickly as possible, I realized how closely it described him and his relationships. Everything described in the book was true to me and my situation. I just wish I could spread this word like wildfire because it would save so many people from getting caught up with people like this. My sociopath EX-BF was introduced to me by a former friend who wanted me to do her a favor.

This guy was in prison! An inmate with a very high IQ. He studied law and claims to have a photographic memory. Someone who will enjoy conversing, letting me know someone on the outside. From what I was told, he was a good guy put into prison under false name, etc. I trusted the ex friend. See, he was an inmate. He was not even there under his correct name or social security. The red flags were there almost at the beginning but he quickly even charmed me after our first telephone altercation.

Always that I was God sent to him. That his parents beat him, they were awful to one another, etc. I felt his pain. He always, always told me I was his girl. He wanted to marry me. I saw a pattern with him. Then, his father would mostly break his promise to go to visit and then not show up. I often said I felt he kept me separted from his family. He would make excuses. They never talked since. However, she was the first he contacted via FB over myself.

He talked his way out of that one…so he thought. He ended coming to visit for 15 days. The sex was immediate and the worst EVER!!! He was rough, fast and selfish…but he looked in my eyes telling me how in love he was with me. I let it slide because of him being 10 yrs in prison. We spent a lot of alone time together. He told me prior he wanted just US as much as possible.

He needed to purge and needed peace. At the time the paintings sent, he knew that I spent a lot of time and money having them framed. What he wrote on the back of each painting were the most beautiful words ever said to me. Again, I respected him. I let him sleep in as he never slept on bed in 11 yrs…to include at his fathers home. Much of what he stated, I researched and he was right. His calls to me which were once all the time for hours on end came to a trickle.

He always talked of giving me a trust for being the Godsent goodness. All while he made me feel such sorry for him. No reason but my EX would play us and I see that now. He beat my EX as a child to the point of throwing him through a wall a few times. One morning, I woke to find he set up another social media under a false name. I phoned him immediate. NO answer unusual none until late that day. From then on, more lies. I consulted not one but two psychics. They told me he was lying and lies like a dog. The dude cheated on me with both men and women.

I still felt pitty for him as I did not research sociopaths at that point. His stepMother and father fight all the time. One excuse after the other.

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